Okay so: I've been working this girl for about 2 months. We started in the friend phase last year (both of us seeing someone) but there was mutual attraction. First day back to uni this year she wants to see me, they broke up over the summer. HUGE Chemistry our first night.

Things were going great before another guy starts AMOGing me. I handled it very well at first, just acted like I didn't care. She asked me if the two could go out (she and I were not official, just casual) and I leaned back, shrugged and said whatever. This care-free attitude was working WONDERS and she seemed to lose a bit of interest in him.

However, I made some mistakes over the 2 months, showed a bit of insecurity, etc. I'm at a LJBF stage without her saying it to me yet...but I know its coming. I'm trying to use CNF and status to build some tension up but its ultimately failing...

"What do you think of my shirt?"
"I love it! Totally hides your gut"
"hahah *Smile*"

I think i'm doing it well but I'm having trouble building the tension. Any advice on what I did/should do?

Talk about james bond: The new movie Quantum. Say how he's always havin sex in every movie, and joke about that 007 movie called octopussy! lol
talk about your idea of a movie: octocock, then talk about hancock!
now ur talking about ur dick wit her, just randomly

The principle is «if u can get her to visualise it, you can get her to want it (sex wit you)»

Ur back out of the friend zone in a 1-2 step, 30 minute conversation

Cheers, Lucky D

Yeah, try flirting a little, and then maybe just get her one on one, and make a move. If you can touch a girls face without her pulling away you can kiss her. There's also a lot of kiss routines out there.

If you get the LJBF, then freeze her out. Don't tell her your freezing her out, just do it. Don't return any txts, Don't call her and if she calls you keep short and concise. Hangout with her, but give her the cold shoulder while you do so.

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