Ive been talking to a girl for a while now. we known each other for about 3 month or so. She is an hb9. We have been flirting for a while and both of us wanted to have a relationship with each other. but this saturday that just passed she wasnt acting like herself, she was acting like a jerk to me. I didnt do nothing to her for her to start acting like that, so im kindve of confused about this situation. The next day i called and let her know that she made me feel like a dumbass and stupid and she was like thats the way i act when im around ppl, but what confuses me about that is that she is always around ppl when she acts the way im use to seeing her. So she was explaining herself and stuff and i told her whatever i just called to let you know how i felt and that i will speak to you later on and i clicked. So i havent spoken to her since that and what gets me confused is that this is a girl that i was suppose to have a relationship with and that i really liked and something just back fires just like that, for me thats confusing. So im asking what should i do, should i close the set until she calls, or call her and talk like nothing happen, or any other ideas you could help me with.

thanks in advanced hb9 is 20 yrs old

Call her like nothin happened and take her out with some of her friends, then neg her repeatedly. Not cruel negs but playful and dont let up, neg her friends too. Basically your just turning the tables on her.

good luck

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yeah i dont really know why she might've been an ass to you... could be many things ranging from her having a bad day to her being annoyed with you for not making any moves.

either way, you should've given her IOD's as soon as she started her shit... her shit = her DLVing. remember that. so start with subtle negs and teases. if her attitude didnt change, leave the set and open a new set. this shows her that you dont need to take shit from her and that she's not that special that you cant live without her.

ideally you shouldn't have called her telling her that you're upset, but thats done now so we have to work with that...

pretend as if nothings happened. you'll have to work on being unaffected because she's now seen that she can shake your frame.

chances are that you've destroyed some attraction now, so you'll need to fix that too.

ok i will try that to see if that works...if not fuck it. I will keep you guys up to date

maybe its taking too long and she's starting to lose interest

i have tried telling her lets go out and do something, and she is always giving me excuses. We have gone out before in a group , like twice but it isnt the same when two ppl are alone. thats the way i see it. Also i have tried tellin her to lets move out of the friend zone, in other words and she does want to, but it looks like she isnt ready for that. That makes me lose interest in her because it feels like im chasing after her to hard. So now that this incident happened on saturday im like fuck it, but imma try out what the other guys told me to do, see if it works. I have also kissed this girl if it helps, and thats why the way she acted got me confused.

My God . . . you sound like some insecure little girl . . .

Even married couples who love each other dearly have days when they get pissed off at one another for some stupid little reason or no reason that they can easily explain.

If you had 3 months of flirting and she "verbally agreed" to take your relationship further, then take some comfort in that and just relax a bit. There is no way you can hide your insecurities from her and now she knows she's got you like some little puppet.

She can project any negativity towards you and she knows she'll get to watch your scramble around. It's kinda sick but whether she's doing this consciously or not, you're feeding her fire by doing your song and dance. You ARE giving her more attention(positive reinforcement) for her BAD BEHAVIOR. Stop. Even if you she becomes your girlfriend(especially if she becomes your girlfriend) your life will be hell if you let this type of cycle continue . . .

When she gets like that, you don't have to tell her to fuck off but you don't have to act like a monkey either.

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