Hey it wont let me post anywhere else... i'm not much of a noobie or whatever but this is the deal:

This girl randomly friend requests me on facebook, shes from back home and i'm out in college... and i accept cuz this girl is like an HB9.. killer

So i post on her wall saying:
ME - hey you sent me a friend request... have i met you somehwere before? haha

HER - hmm dunno lol

ME - oh i see... you thought i was way good looking and you had to get to know me haha

HER - Lol something like that =p



So what do i do here? i mean do i just get her aim and start talking to her and seem like a cool guy? and then when i finally meet her in person build attraction and comfort?

or do i keep pulling off the Cocky funny vibe untill i see her so that i dont look like a AFC trying to just be cool over aim?? this is where i'm lost...



oh and one more thing... obviously i know some of the terms and stuff on here like waht i said before and LMR and all that.... but i never figured out what you guys are saying with F-closing and #-closing and k-closing... whats k closing like kino close or something?

Thanks

k-close means kiss close.

Personally i would not get my hopes up with a random facebook add. I dont know the word to describe it, but girls love to see the # of friends on social sites like myspace and facebook increase. Its almost like a popularity contest to them.

But there is a chance to game. If you are in college and she is back in your hometown you should shoot her a message such as, " Hey i'm gonna be back in town over the long weekend, give me your # so we can get a coffee."

In my person experience it is very difficult to build rapport and comfort through instant messenger or even facebook messages if you have never met the person.

so if you get the #, text her a few times, and then call her. Once she has heard your voice it will be much easier to build comfort and kino escalate if you meet her.



good luck bro

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yeah i definitely get what you mean... thanks bro