the run down , theres this girl in my class, been getting a few ioi's, been hanging out a little, but shes keeps not responding to my texts. she responds to a few but at times she doesnt at all. When ever i do see her i find out she was out all night or something so thats proabbly why she didnt reply.
today we had a test in class, i finished first and said i was leaving, she asked me somehting i replied. before class i asked her to come to this uni comedy show that was happeing but she replied maybe as she was tired. i texted her when i left the class to call when she finished and that i was using the computers in the library, but once again, no reply...

any views?

She has you where she wants you. She is controlling the frame. How do I know this? Simple. You are asking her to do something and she does things at her convenience.

There are about 4 things to do here.

1. You can just go BALLS OUT and tell her you like her and you would really enjoy hanging with her...chips fall where they may.

2. Freeze her out, and see if she starts missing you. This could also push her away from you, but then again you may not have her anyways based on your comments.

3. You can find another girl.

4. You can keep doing what you are doing now and getting the same results. Since you are posting here I'm guessing this isn't an option you want to take.

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fair points, seem slike option 1 is my best choice. im meeting up with her this weekend to work on this presentation we have together, ill see how things go and ask her out in the appropiate time.
thanks for your help mate

anyone got any other thoughts?

nah dude, JSmooth has said everything i could think of...
i'd also go for #1, if that's a balls-up then just move on down to #3.

remember dude, you're here to improve your quality of life. so if the one is playing games with you and not making you happy, find someone else who does make you happy.

I wouldn't go with #1. I will be straight with you; if you put so much effort into her already with little feedback then she is not getting turned on by the way you are courting her.

Freeze her out or change your approach. If you go with #1 and express your feelings for her then you will likely come across as too feminine, because you show that you care about her more than she does about you.

I see another solution for you - DHV yourself in the class. One thing I noticed before getting into PUA is that girls are attracted to intelligent men in the classroom setting. I am talking about those who ask smart questions and are conscious of the subject.

I'm going to agree with arnold on this one. If you're getting IOI's she obviously digs you in some kind of way so just blow her off and don't find time for her. Like the saying goes "don't make him/her a priority if they only make you an option"

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# 2.. then meanwhile #3 and #1 a while after the # 2 hopefully works out and shes begging for you

Jsmooth covered everything in a simple way.

She's turned you into her little "brother". Little brothers are fun but you don't save up your Saturday nights for little brothers. Why? He's ALWAYS where you want him to be. You know when you go, "Hey, lil' bro! Get your ass down here!" He's gonna come over to hang out with the older sibling.

No matter which path you take, you MUST flip this situation around in a major way. You have to be the older brother and she has to be the little bratty sister who wants to tag along with you every where you go. What do older brothers say to their younger sisters when they want to tag along? How is it that everything that an "older brother/sister" does seems so cool to the eyes of the younger sibling. Figure this out and make it your reality.

great advice, thanks

from all the texting you are doing it making you seem to needy. i say do option 2 and 3 (what Jsmooth suggested) at the same time. Freeze her out. and also find another chick. This can cme in handy showing her that she not the only one.

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