How do you leave a girl better than she was before she met you..?

As you have given no real contextual information I can only assume that you are talking about hooking up with a girl with no intention of progressing the relationship further than a one night stand.

For this my only real suggestion to you is to make sure that she is aware of and accepts your intentions before you act.

The bottom line is that to leave a girl better off than you find her, you both have to share a lot of common ground.

For pure hooking up, you have to make her understand beforehand that its all about having fun and enjoying each other and that it wont lead to anything more. You want to make sure that when you leave you dont hurt her in some way and that in my opinion you make sure you do your best to please her in bed.

For a relationship dont lead her on dont push/pull too long, ect ect. I hope to god your a nice guy in a relationship and not a total dick. Then when it ends she wouldn't be looking back at and saying what the hell did I ever see in that guy...

Its pretty simple if you look back and see that before you met her she was better off your doing something wrong.

Truth be told not everything is in your hands, sometimes theres nothing you can do.

as BAMBAM put it, just dont be a dick. and also occasionally try to think with your mind, not your dick. girls think about feelings and shit a lot more than we do. so just dont let her feel used. either make sure she is ok with a one night thing or tell her how much you care (and try to mean it) before doing to much sexualy.

besides, if you are a total dick to too many chicks then your rep will become absolute dirt and you will never get a girl in your town/city!

be a nice guy and at least attempt to have emotions

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Or for hookup sake, make sure she is having a hellalot of fun. As in so she will remember the night that didnt count for anything as a mad fun one.
You also have to follow above, dont be a dick and make sure she knows nothing is going to happen further.
eg, last night I didnt even get number or freaking name yet hookup and she had a ball... more than I bet she wouldve without me

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have consideration for her feelings even tho you don't feel like fucking her anymore

I wrote this more than a year ago on the Don Juan forums:

This is a rule of thumb I try my best to keep close to my heart.
With interaction with a girl, or any person for that matter, it would be best to show them something new and positive, giving them an opportunity to mature toward an enlightened human being from how you interacted with them. You can achieve this most of the time with your optimism. Hopefully some of your optimism and appreciation for beauty in life will rub off on the girl and in turn she will become a better person.

well said man.
i'm adding optimism to a list of things that i need to work on.

I was gaming this HB8 and showing her a real good time. Orgasms deluxe. It was only for a short while (2 months) until she moved to another city.
At the same time I was gaming another HB who invited me away for a luxury holiday. HB8 found out about it, and told me that she's not into my dishonest dealings (i was honest with her about my intent but did not want to disrespect her by being blatant with my polyamorous attitude). I immediately ended our friendship via e-mail. I'm afraid that I haven't managed to break it with her completely, as she's still trying to contact me after nearly 3months of a freeze-out. How can I rectify the situation, and how do I dump somebody so they can stay dumped?

Be honest and help her grow as a person. Expect her to do the same for you.

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