Ok theres these 3 girls who are like the best of friends, ive known them like ages at least 10 months,

im close to all 3 as friends but lately one has been taking a interest in me :/ she said a while back that she'd love a BF like me, i disqualified immediately but she persisted to say that im good blah blah blah... if i wernt like a brother to her :S so now her ex thinks me and her have got somthing going on and we joke about this.

last night we went to a party and she was dancing with me but it seemed a little bit more than just friendly, but i didnt know whether to take it seriously or not, and her ex was watching, (do i give a fuck? no) anyway she text me this morning quite early, i text her back hours later. but hour or so ago on msn i confronted her about last night, and i said i wanted to know if she was doing it to make her ex jelous etc etc. she said no and she doesnt want him etc etc, then she proceeded to say that the girls and her were talking about how i was perfect and i made the perfect BF etc etc and that she loves me she really does :/ i think we could be good together but it doesnt feel right.. i need to hear it from her,, do you understand where im coming from?

what would you guys advise me?

From what i understand you dont want to go for it because "it doesn't feel right". You have to clarify on this if you want more specific advice.

From my stand point i wouldn't do it, just because as far as i can see your worried about loosing all three of the girls as friends and hook up sources. If thats not an issue and you want a relationsip and you think it would work out fine then i see no reason not to do it.

now that i think about it, i would love to have her as a GF cause she seems such a good type, but tbh i have so many other girls confusing me SPAM.

how could i get her to be more "open" about how she feels?

thanks bam bam

OK this is possibly the worst thing to say in this forum but id go Afc with her possibly for 20 minutes and just ask.

I kind of know what you mean by it doesn't feel right because ive been in that situation quite a bit this year. Girls that i know im going to be seeing for 1 more year but i know we both have attraction for each other... Yah thats a it doesn't feel right in my mind.

Best line to use in these situations for an easy kiss close, "Ever been in a situation where your head says one thing and your heart says another?" If she says yes and they usually 90% of the time elaborate either saying i wish i followed my heart or w/e. If they say the heart thing as a positive thing then she wants you to move in.

I can't give you more advice than this because i think its all up to you now to decide which way to go.