I've never been out sarging but have studied the whole seduction and pickup technique for some time now and am ready to start. Most of my friends have girlfriends so finding a wingman at the moment has become somewhat of a challenge. I would like to start on my own but am pretty scared just becuase I've never done it before.

If you guys have any tips or could just let me know how you do the whole sarge thing without a wingman or someone always there to talk to, I would appreciate it. Thanks.

P.S. I love these forums and can't wait to start!

Going out by yourself can be heaps of fun

Just park yourself near a group of people (I find mixed sets of 3-4 the easiest to start) and strike up a convo with one of GUYS. Needless to say, with guys a simple "Hi how's it going" is sufficient. In the first set you're not necessarily trying to pick up. Just make some friends so you're not standing there by yourself like a dousche.

For me, once I've got the first set rolling everything seems to flow from there.

As you're a newbie (like me ) I'd concentrate more on just having a good time as opposed to 'picking up'. Don't get too drunk, and just make some new, more outgoing friends.

yeah man, you can either go out alone and make heaps of new friends and stuff, or you can go out with your friends and their GFs and just open sets solo... either way will work. just make sure you get out in the field!

you dont need a wingman or wingwoman. it's a bit easier to open a set if you have a wingwoman but its the same as going solo if you're with a wingman...

what i've done a few times is to ask my friend's girlfriends to wing me...
girls love playing matchmaker and helping guys pick up girls etc, so get your friend to come out with you and to bring his chick with. you then get her to wing for you and buy your friend a beer for each set that his chick opens with you (this keeps your friend from getting bored)

I honestly prefer going out by myself most of the time. I always end up making new friends, plus my friends end up blowing it for it anyways. If I start chatting up a girl one of them will come over out of jealousy and say something stupid.