Ok so recently ive been 'talking' with this girl. After the first get togeather her friends tell me that im all she talks about. So i go out with just her a few times, but i never catch any IOIs from her. I usually go in for the kiss after the second date, but she didnt have the eye scan so i left with just a hug. What should i do about this no IOIs thing? Its obvious she likes me b/c her friends wouldnt lie to me she just doesnt show it.

You mean to tell me that she doesn't laugh at your jokes, reinitiate conversation with you, touch you, smile at you, hold eye contact with you, touch her hair, or anything??? There is a huge list of IOIs either this girl isn't human or you are missing some things that are subtle.

Check out this link
iois-the-completed-list-vt12718.html?highlight=ioi

Hopefully that will help. If her friends tell you that you are all she talks about you that in itself is a huge indicator of interest. Don't worry about the IOIs too much and start for the kino escalation as you normally would. Seems like she's attracted to you, just get some comfort in and keep it going.

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shes probably just mad shy man

you gotta take control there, return some love so she opens up.

<center>"Sometimes it isn't when she dose something but rather when she dosen't do something that she's expressing interest. These are called passive IOIs, and they're very important because often they're the only IOIs you'll get." -The Mystery Method : How to get beautiful women into bed

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I had that happen to me too once. I later realized that she had self-esteem problems, hence I was dick on a pedestal and she was so afraid of messing things up that she went afc(or the female version of it) and got all quiet and withdrawn. Try some sois or compliments, that might help to even things out, but not too much (you don't want it to swing it too far the other way).

go on and scan her BL.

there's the possibility that she's shy and don't dare to give any notorious IOIs. if she doesn't reveal herself consciously, look for the unconscious signals. that's were her mind betrays her, showing her intentions without she even knows.

GL