Okay, I have a girl Ive been dating for a few months now. At first it was just sex but then it turned into more. She wanted to have a bf but didnt want to commit. She wanted to hang out and do the comfortable stuff but would still go out and do her own thing.

This was nice at first but after a while I felt like I was being taken advantage of due to my easy-goin take it as it comes attitude. I know I put myself in that situation but thats just my personality.

Finally I told her I wasnt getting anything out of it and walked. I some push/pull with her and she came back and things were a bit better. She was more respectful and we had a good thing going.

Then it slipped to the same thing again. Then again.

When does the push/pull stop? I dont have the energy to do that forever. Is every woman going to require this forever? Or is it something that you should just have to do at the beginning to get her more attracted to you?

When do you say enough is enough?