Once attraction is lost, or reduced a lot, how hard is it to build up again? I'm especially thinking about girls from school, job, etc. In these situations I am bound to screw up a little bit (still a newbie). In stead of just moving on, how is the posibility for recovery?

I'm not talking about making a complete fool of yourself, but being a bore one night, or having a bad day at school/work. Just watching all the IOI's and the "chemestry" fading away.

This is typical for me. "Getting it on" with a girl, than having a bad day, where I am a complete bore or an asshole, and ruining things. Especially at work or school, no posibilities to eject.

So, what is your experience? How hard is recovering from "bad days" where you killed some, a lot, or all attraction?

i'd say it really depends on the situation, theres no definitive answer. i know ive had days in classes when im just really tired so it effects my game. im there, il talk to people, but i wont be really energetic or fun. i'd say the best thing you can do is forget what happened and continue the next day with more determination. if you wanted to, the next day you could bring up how tired you were and say it was from working out or something.

Attraction can be created and rebuilt in most situations. Usually the only time you cant create or rebuild attraction in a particular woman is when you did something to REALLY mess things up before... like you were a big time "Wussy" as David DeAngelo would say.

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I'll tell you what works for me.
I never act against my feelings... for instance, if I am having a bad day, I don't try to overcome it and pretend I'm happy and game the girls. It never works, they can sense the weakness. Better thing to do is to keep it down. I just do my things, if people talk to me I respond to them.
I don't isolate myself... but I make sure I am not trying too hard to please other people. If people ask me what is wrong, I say I'm just tired, and change subject (I don't want to sound negative and be whining).