Last night went out to club and had a good time. This hb was there that i have known for a while. We text a lot and have class together. she always gives me ioi's and flirts with me. Since iv known her for a while and havent pursued anything, im thinking that i might be in friends zone.

anyway... we ended up kissing.. but she was pretty drunk.. we went our seperate ways after the night and i havent talked to her since. all i want to know is if it was cause she was drunk or cause she wanted to. I want to talk to her but i dont know what to say now.. i want to pursue something but maybe all she wanted was just random hookup.

anyone been in this situation?
any ideas of what i can send her in a text and when too send it?
how should i pursue this?

... very confusing situation..

no i havnt been in the situation but heres my advice. talk to her asap but dont bring it up at first, act as if it didnt happen and ask her out to do something social. game her once your out and isolate her from any of your friends if she doesnt bring it up say "about the other night, im sorry things happened like that, you were pretty drunk and i just didnt fell comfortable with the sircumstances. I do like you and i would like to start over" kiss close

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"HE WHO MAKES A BEAST OF HIMSELF GETS RID OF THE PAIN OF BEING A MAN"

Yes I have been in this situation.

There are two important things about this, and unfortunately they seem to contradict themselves.
1. You never do anything you truly don't want to do when you're drunk. She wanted to kiss you.
2. At the time her buying temperature was probably up, so the attraction she felt for you at the time will be lessened for sure.

My advice? Don't pursue it. It was a one time thing. Do not text her or phone her. If you want to take it further then you are going to have to run into her again and start solid game from scratch. You already have calibration down and by running some routines it shouldn't be too hard to reinitiate the kino.

I have had random make-outs with girls that I know and that are drunk before. Girls will not want to see you again if you have only made a physical connection. In order to make them want to come back for more, you are going to have to make a sincere emotional connection. And they are going to have to remember it

Edit: In response to BIGRED, I highly recommend restraining from contacting her. She probably does not remember much and if she did then she is probably embarrassed about it. Although I have few specifics, I do think she likes you, but you can not chase her (not yet). There will be an awkwardness between you and to get past that you are going to have to build up attraction, neg, be able to be comfortable around her, show willingness to walk away, intrigue her, and build an emotion connection. You are going to have to prove to her that:
1. You are an alpha male and have no neediness for women
2. You are interested in her (for every reason other than looks), and want to let her into your life

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