so i have been in good comfort with this hb for quite some time. shes always giving me ioi's.

so one day she texts me and says guess what?

Me: What
HB: me and ********* arent talking anymore




so is this a good thing for me????


also


she also says lets hangout.. ( we never really hang out, just talk a lot and have classs together) i want to and everything... i just dont know waht she want to do....


what are some good ideas to do when she suggests to hang out?

good comfort for quite some time? how long?
the reason im asking is because if you stay in comfort without indicating interest, kino-ing etc then you're going to end up exactly where i am with my most recent case of one-itis. LJBF. not cool.

anyway, the guy who she's no longer talking to, who is he?
if she was interested in him, it might be her signaling that she's available. if it's just some other guy, a friend or acquaintance then it doesn't really mean much. in fact, it could just have been her venting and wanting you to ask her why so she can blow some steam, which means you could be becoming that nice shoulder which she can cry on.

however, i have ways of making things seem a lot more complicated that they are so i could be way off.

as for hanging out, the possibilities are endless. i like taking them shopping, go-karting and even cliche things like coffee or hanging out at a bar. it doesnt really matter what you do, as long as you're interesting, fun and enthusiastic. dont do movies though, unless its at your place.