So I do have many good resources building my inner game, confidence, self-esteem.

Might any one suggest some resources for outer-game cause I'm not entirely sure where to start?

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All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him. -- Buddha (the playa)

so for me outergame created the best inner game

the following is taken from the rules of the game, so enjoy

all credit is to N.Strauss

Go out to a stylish boutique try to avoid big name stores as its kind of generic, pick out a stylish outfit, one that compliments your build, go to a shoe store get some sharp shoes to accomadate the outfit you just purchased

go find a hairstyle something bold and fun, find a pic of a fave celeb and take its pic to a hairstylist, then get product to keep it up

get some nice cologne

the day you decie to go out and meet new women or go on a date don your new a tire wash yourself well David D. recomends 3 times, brush your teeth, fix your hair, wash your mouth with listerine and floss you will look and feel like a million bucks, Look in the mirror tell yourself "yopu deserve this, you are bright, intelligent funny and good looking you deserve everything the world has to offer" and then you will be in the perfect mindset to go out and sarge


also I recomend gum or mints as a carry on, you can never have too fresh a breath

Guys... Outer game does not refer to what you look like. Outer game refers to your skills in PU. How well you understand the structure.

The best way to get good inner game is to get a good outer game. The only way to get a good outer game is to practice. Go out there and open sets like crazy, crash and burn, get rejected, eventually you will understand what it is all about!

Keep it up!

i always thought it was the other way around?
reason: with a solid mindset comes a solid frame. if you are confident then you dont have to worry about looking confident because it comes naturally. if you believe you are the prize then your behaviour will reflect that belief.

but yes, inner game is about the right mindsets, outer game is about how you interact, behave and respond, not what you look like... then again, your appearance will have an effect on your inner and outer game, but they are not defined or solely reliant on it

Congrats, you just pointed out the dilemma.

It is the other way around as well... To have a good inner game improves your outer game BUT to have a good solid outer game, a good gameplan and understanding the structure will give you confidence.
If you have something to say and a way to keep the conversation going for 10 minutes do you not feel more secure?
When you can numberclose 10 girls in a night, I am sure your confidence will be better too...

Love

Ezo