I myself am just getting out of the "noob" category, both in my love life and on these forums.

It was a very rough road. I was deeply stuck in a lot of areas, and it took months for a significant transformation... and it was hard work both on my mind, and my emotions. I learned a lot. This stage of my life is where I learned the most, and I know I'll never again experience such a metamorphosis. A lot of people here can relate to that, I'm sure.

I've managed to find a lot of advice to share that isn't so apparent or existant in a lot of PUA material. One was shared in my latest thread, which is worth checking out, and the replies there were in agreement. I want to tell you... which I said in another thread... Pretty much everything in Pick-Up comes down to three basic fundamentals:

~ Actually getting out there to expose your presence to women.

~ Direct Game (coming down to effectively interacting with women, which with the following fundamental is a PIECE OF CAKE). Ironically enough, I'll say that this piece of the puzzle is probably the smallest piece.

~ Knowing what to avoid doing (I "avoid" making a list of "do not", because I believe it's harder to internalize in that wording because the subconscious mind recognizes only positives). This will make your game or break it.

A sample of the latter: Avoid openly displaying jealousy.

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How about not getting jealous at all. I know its hard to not get jealous at all, but if you at least try and cut it down you be much better off.

Why would you put forth a bunch of psychological effort to not be jealous when you can just follow the rule of "Not openly displaying jealousy"?

When you're a Master PUA, sure, you can probaby naturally avoid the feeling of jealousy altogether. But let's stop bullshitting ourselves. You're going to feel it until then.

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Fake it till u make it is, in my humble opinion, an awful idea. Essentally what you are doing is butteling up your own insecrurities and putting on a show. You will act your life and people will notice. Even if they dont notice, unless you resolve your issues you will proably have problems with it in later life.
I am not saying it wont work for anyone, but like all things, it takes a lot of effort to master things.
Put the effort into making yourself the best you can be, in life, PU and anything else.
Madals

The less jealous you become the more secure with your self you become. I agree that it will be completely impossible to block the emotion as we are after all human. And I think it is better to display jealously than to block it actually. Because what girl really wants to deal with a guy that hides or displays no emotions?