i was at my ballroom class as per everyweek, and i kinda over time have developed "feelings" for my HB 8 partner. she is funny, kind, caring, a great dancer and now i wouldn't be surprised if she hated my guts for ever.
this is how it happened:

it was getting a little bit hot inside the hall so i asked her if she wanted to come for a walk outside (isolate the target). Earlier on in the evening i had looked in the mirror and promised myself that i would attempt to kiss close by the end of the night.
well we went out side and she started showing me stuff on her fone and i showed her some stuff on mine, we were getting along great. then i got a text message telling me my lift had arrived. so i told her i had better get my crap and go home. as we were walking inside, i said "but first..." and as she turned around i kissed her... no routines nothing in the lead up, just two words. she kissed me back for a moment and then she stepped backward away from me and me sort of smirked at each other and went back inside after i said i was sorry.
as i went accross the other side of the room to say good be to some other mates of mine she turned to a friend of mine next to her and started to fill her in on what happened. she didn't look too happy about what had happened and the look of surprise on the other girl's face was wide eyed and open mouthed... i have fucked up... and big time.
i have since tried apologising for my actions but are yet to hear back from her. i wouldn't be surprised if everybody knew by next week about the innocent walk gone wrong.

if ANYBODY as in ANYBODY AT ALL has ANY ideas on how to get me out of shit creek then PLEASE post them below.

thankyou and adios,
man.ofheart.

Dude, don't worry, at least you had the fucking nads to make a move. If anybody rips the piss out of you for it, just say that. If the girl, or her friends question you just tell them you like her.

It's not like you shot somebody, man. Relax and enjoy the attention.

If you're worried about your reputation within the class and you just want to gracefully pull out, you may want to say something along the lines of "Listen, it's not like I do this to every hot girl I see. I just really thought we had some chemistry and I misread the situation." I'd say that straight to her or her friends. Who knows, maybe after seeing that you had good intentions, she might have time to think about it and be cool with it.

You ARE in a dance class, and dancing is all about attracting and getting closer to your partner, so it's the classic situation where you're going to read into things. Like xeroxed88 says, it's not like you shot anyone. You let go as soon as she pulled back and then you apologized. If they act like you're some sort of serial rapist, they are seriously lame...

lol, maybe should have done mystery's kiss routine... its sounds less of a mouth rape if you do that

but you shouldn't have apologized... shows you regret and makes you unconfident.

I'm surprised you just went for it with no lead up. that takes guts and its a bit of a gamble. how were ur IoI's up to this point? anyways i agree with the post above. don't appologize or make excuses. it makes u seem unconfident..

I just want to say you lack testicular fortitude. You messed up when u apologized for kissing her she was testing you to see if you really had balls or just pretending obviously pretending. When she back off you should have told her "there's plenty more where that came from."

Did u think she wouldn't tell her friends what u did? of course that was a bold move

What u need to not do is go into class acting like a sissy boy fearful of every girl you think knows what. SO WHAT!! if they know YOU Walk around Confident and Upright like your the Man. and like yeah i kissed that girl so what,

u may have succeed in triggering the interest of the other girls who know about the incident they're probably thinking wow he's got balls hmmmmmm

You killed your chance with girl by apologizing so stop it

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Holy god, your my hero. you went stright for it! holy fuck dude just dont go back to that place again, find somewhere else to go! but my god dude, your like a god in my world!!!!

well good job on making the move not to many guys would have and dont be sorry for what you have done......never apologize, seriously
you kiss the girl and hten later on say sorry for doing it...its like your saying i didnt mean to when you damn well did.....

...anywyas dont worry aobut it not EVERY girl is gonna want you and not EVERY girl is gonna liek you...its just how it go's hooking up is a game of numbers always no matter how good your skills there are just some girls you just cant get,

plus let me talk to you about this k-close.....now most guys say in a club im gonna k-close, or k-close here or there.........why?? why? why???

what the hell do you think your gonna get out of it? besides a kiss

do you think if you kiss her she will magically like you??? think about it....

im only bringing this to your attention to let you kow next time you decide to k-close a girl wherever just remember whatever she thinks about you a kiss wotn change it and i think some guys...mess up that

they k-close and think some how the girl will like them..

they game her all night and k-close like somehow thats suppose to put he magic touch on things.


but i understand your reason completly you just wanted to see if she liked you or not....and hell i would of done the same thing god take a risk for once and you did it...some times it works and sometimes it doesnt but you had the balls to do it...

good job

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That's why it's called the kiss-close. You close the game with the kiss and take it to a new level. Yes it's true, a KC won't make a girl fall in love with you, but it shows her you're not afraid to commit and that you can kiss. Not KCing can be a bad thing because it leaves the girl with a "hole in her heart" and she feels like something was lacking and that's just one more reason for her to be un-attracted to you.

i agree with the facts a kiss close is a good way to show the girl i aint no pussy and i go for what i want...
.i was bringing the subject up to him to show him that some guys mistake a k-close like that is suppose to get the girl,
ive seen some videos and read posts where guys kiss close and the girl takes a few steps back after and they wonder why she didnt go for it? its like they were thinking it will be an instant attractoin getter i was only pointing that out to him saying "be aware this isnt a tool you use to get her liking you, its more a tool to see how far up she is attracted to you" or maybe she isnt at all.....k-closing will anwser that question....


and i dont believe the below to be true,
i dont think if you dont kiss a girl she will feel something is lacking and then be unattracted to you..

..if the girl is attracted to you and you dont kiss her, it just leaves a question in the air does he like me? does he want me? it keeps them guessing and leads to increased possible sexual tension, she isnt gonna go "o he didnt kiss me alright i dont like him anymore"

and if you dont kiss her and she didnt like you to begin with yeah she will be unattracted cause she was to begin with.....

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