So for the last few months I've been in serious one-itis mode. Long story.

I think recently I've been using that one-itis as an excuse not to get out there and explore. There's some other self-limiting beliefs and such I have.

No more, tonight every self-limiting belief goes out the window. I don't care if I look like a fool, I don't care if my pride gets hurt, I don't care about my reputation.

No more self limiting beliefs.

I am back on the market!

Just felt like I needed to do something to make it... official, to myself. Oh and I'll be updating this thread with updates.

Basically, I've been a f**kin hermit the last few months. One-itis big time. And then I keep telling myself that I just "don't have time to meet girls" and that I'm not "in the right places"... but ****, I'm a RA on a college campus with like 35,000 students! We have the biggest ****ing undergraduate class EVER this year. I eat in the cafeterias! I walk to class with CROWDS of hot girls. Library, gym, EVERYWHERE. And I'm limiting myself with ridiculous beliefs?

Not anymore... not anymore.

There is absolutely no reason why I should sit in my room alone ANY night of the week. There is absolutely no reason why there isn't a parade of hot chicks knocking down my door at all hours of the day.

I've got the looks, I've got game. My biggest barrier is that initial fear of rejection. I break that, and I am free.

Came up with the perfect plan I'm going to execute tomorrow.

Dinner is ALWAYS ridiculously crowded in our main cafeteria. Hard to find a place to sit...

So... I go, find a table of girls, and ask if I can sit with them. BAM, instantly in with a table of girls. Demonstrate some tremendous confidence. And it's golden. I'll report back tomorrow.

Any thoughts on this plan? I'm really not at all afraid of what I'm going to say once I sit down with a group of girls. Maybe a little trepid about the initial approach. But all in all I'm feeling VERY excited!

don't ask just sit down like you own the spot the ask if the spot was taken immediately be like i didnt think so and your in to open and do as you please big intruder but i find it works well, DHVs, and confidence

true, don't ask. just sit down and initiate convo... good luck, it takes guts man.

ya that's gonna take alot of guts. i look forward to hearing about ur success