As you may be able to tell, I'm feeling kinda overwhelmed here. There's so much out there and they all claim to be the best. I mean you've got StyleLife Academy; Mystery Method; Dating to Relating; Charisma Arts; Speed Seduction/NLP; Cockyfunny; just to name a few. I want to learn the basic principles of attraction so that when I meet a girl that I'm interested in I can attract her to me so that we can get to know each other and find out if we would be compatible in a marriage (and maybe make out some if I feel like it).

So who really is the best out there? Who can walk up to ANY girl and walk away with her being at least initially attracted to him. I'm not just talking about "HB 9's and 10's". I mean ANY girl. Because I might be attracted to something different than others. HB 10 may be different for different people.

Not only that, but I want to transition into a relationship when the time is right.

So what do you think? Who can help?

First, you gotta take it off the pedestal you have this on, its not difficult to meet and close women, the fact is that yes it is true attraction is not a choice, but certain men just dont know how to attract certain women,

as for all the different methods, there is no one perfect method that ill seduce any woman you want instantly, its about social skills and thats exactly what all of this is; skills, they must be learned not taught or purchased from a book, any one can walk up to any girl and if he knows the game he can take her home, but it takes practice, it just gets easier the more you do it.

not good with social skills? this forum alone contains a vast knowledge of information on dress, hygiene, conversation starters, confidence builders and opening lines to approach women, you just have to take the time and find what works for you.

as for transition to a relationship, well thats the easy part, this forum is designed for hookups, so if you can build enough attraction and comfort, you should know whether or not you like eachother and can go from there.

as for make out, its all about being magnetic, and by that i mean drawing in others around you, make sure you're in the spot light, always beaming with such positive vibes people are somewhat drawn to you and want to be around you giving you a high social status thus women will flock to you then just run your game from there

what a lot of people dont understand is exactly what the above poster mentioned - there is no method that will work all the time. you have to practice and adjust YOUR game to be congruent with YOUR personality and you have to calibrate your delivery and frame with each person you meet to perfect YOUR skills.
i use a mix of mystery method and cocky funny because that suits my personality, but i'm not restricting myself to just those 2. it's not about perfecting mystery method etc, its about perfecting your method, your delivery, your frame and hopefully getting some exercise for your back in the process