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PostPosted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 2:33 am 
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I do get the occasional F close, but a lot of the times I'll just get a hug or nothing else.

any advice on what to do? Is it lack of kino? They usually don't say LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS, but without doing more than hugging, I'm sure we both assume that's how it is.

I definitely need work on my kino, but what else can I do?


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 2:53 am 
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Well kino is a very big part of it, but I think it also has a lot to do with how you present yourself. Kino is so great because it does two things: makes her comfortable with your physical contact thus making it easier to obtain more, and acts as a SOI or statement of interest. For years I would kind of just hang around women and try to be cool, hoping they would notice and do something that would let me know they wanted more than a friendship. Sometimes it would work, but what I’ve since realized is that the women would only make a move on me because they were tired of waiting for me to do it first. Basically women are expecting you to lead them, it is your responsibility early on to let them know that you are not interested in a platonic friendship. If you do not say or do things, that make them think you desire them sexually (SOIs, kino included) early on, they assume you are just being friendly with them and they write you off. You must make it unquestionable clear early on that you are a sexual being that desires them…but not in a Afc or perverted way of course, but rather in a smooth Amog way. I think that Juggler Method would help you out quite a bit.


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Well kino is a very big part of it, but I think it also has a lot to do with how you present yourself. Kino is so great because it does two things: makes her comfortable with your physical contact thus making it easier to obtain more, and acts as a SOI or statement of interest. For years I would kind of just hang around women and try to be cool, hoping they would notice and do something that would let me know they wanted more than a friendship. Sometimes it would work, but what I’ve since realized is that the women would only make a move on me because they were tired of waiting for me to do it first. Basically women are expecting you to lead them, it is your responsibility early on to let them know that you are not interested in a platonic friendship. If you do not say or do things, that make them think you desire them sexually (SOIs, kino included) early on, they assume you are just being friendly with them and they write you off. You must make it unquestionable clear early on that you are a sexual being that desires them…but not in a Afc or perverted way of course, but rather in a smooth Amog way. I think that Juggler Method would help you out quite a bit.
I've read Juggler's pickup book a few times, what section should I check?


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 3:00 am 
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i dont know about methods, just for your own idea, if she nudges you, fair game to nudge back. If you are in an open space per-say and she still ends up rubbing across you to get by or whatever. fair game to rub too..

for instance. i met my boss, female hb6/7 nice tits i rate her an 7.5.. but after working with her. spilling hours of bs conversation, the meanwhile she was joking with me, kino'ing me.. so i just on the spot started rubbing her shoulders and told her some random funny shit.. prolly about fucking me for a good laugh..

if they put you in the LJBF spot. one thing i can say is start trying to open with haha your blah blah, you might make a good friend. But you seem to blah blah... im sure you'd embarrass me.. and go from there, so if you get put in the lbjf spot.. you got her first, just be like, Thats what i was after, your so after getting me in the sack.. glad im not easy.. <insert joke> wala, outta the ljbf

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 4:39 am 
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thank you


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 7:02 pm 
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keep in mind the game isnt guarenteed on every girl, so do take into account the above information of the previous posts but keep in mind if a girl doesnt want to have sex it may not be your fault, she just may not want to have sex plain and simple some girls are like that

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