I noticed a real hot looking girl the other day. Didn't say word to her. Just saw her. I mentioned her to a co-worker...she talked with her for a bit and this girl gave her an email address to give to me. Turns out she's friggin EIGHTEEN...that's 'one'...'eight'!!!! I thought she was at least 21..22ish. ugh.

Fellas, I'm almost twice her age. I don't want to be "that guy" with the girl who can't get into bars and stuff. I just feel wierd even remotely trying to march that direction.

I probably already know what I'm going to do....but what do you guys think?

If you are interested in her then go for it. I don't really like dating girls under the age of 20 but if I am interested in a girl that is 18 then I am going to go for it.

If she's old enough to bleed, she's old enough to breed.

I'm 19 so it's not much of an issue for me, although I don't really like cougars. I've had so many 34+ yr old women come up to me and grab my crotch/ass that I find it a little disgusting. If I were you I wouldn't start a relationship with her but there's nothing wrong with a teen hook-up for a guy in his thirties. It's totally up to you man, but if she's good looking I wouldn't pass up the opportunity as it will probably piss you off later if you turn it down.

aaaaahhh. I dunno...


The curiosity is there.....but I personally feel "creeped out" about it. So I'll probably let this one slide. Also...part of this one is that if some 30something dude approaches MY little girl (when she gets to teen), I'd be pissed.

Think of it this way: guys like George Clooney and Robert DeNiro are WAY older than you, and although they aren't picking up 18-year-olds, they are getting with hot women that are MUCH younger than them. Nobody thinks they're creepy, they are STUDS

In all seriousness, I've been having a similar issue (although the girl I'm seeing is just 8 years younger), so I think I can relate. In the end, I found that the truly important thing is if there is chemistry. Can I have a good time with this girl or not? Whether or not you are looking for an LTR or just to have some fun, just ask yourself that. Now, you might find that as an 18-year-old, she is too immature for what you're looking for, but hell, it could be a lot of fun as well.

I'm 20 so 17 and up is cool