Hi all,

First post here. I'm in my early 30's and consider myself new to the community. Been working on trying to develop my inner game but have some self-esteem issues that have been bugging me recently. I had a career setback the past few years with the downturn in my industry (real estate) caused me to settle for a job that pays me less from what I was used to making. I know I should consider myself lucky to even be employed considering the economy these days but I feel at my age, I should be gainfully employed or at least have something going on that allows me to live the lifestyle I was used to living. My job pays the bills and allows my to live alone in a modest apartment, but I'm feeling down from not having the lifestyle I once had. I'd like to have the confidence of approaching women, but I need to deal with this issue before I can move on.


Any advice from someone in my situation?

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Wait... So you created an account on a forum for picking up women because you want advice on what you, an ex real estate agent, can do to make the money you once were?

Or were you asking on how to have the confidence that you did have without making as much money?

To the second question, just try to look at the positives of any situation. You aren't a starving guy in Zimbabwe that's being oppressed. Realize that by worrying or feeling down about something won't help the situation at all. Be the king of your castle and try to be as happy as possible. Set yourself some goals and think of ways to better yourself (health, wealth, and relationships).

As for the first, I have no idea because I'm not into real estate.

Let me ask you a question. If you met a HB9/10 and she lived in a small place and was not making the money she used to be on would it bother you????

Also when you do open are you saying sorry to girls because you dont have the salary you used to be on..... if so you have gone from PUA to pain in her arse. Imagine you met a great girl and all she did was talk about what she used to have??????? Boring

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