So, I just set up a date to go out with this girl. But when I met her, she said she "kind of" was seeing someone. Then warned me when I asked her out she was seeing someone, but has still agreed to go out with me anyways. She doesn't seem too committed to this guy (its not official if its not on facebook right? What can I do on this date to try and edge out this other guy, do I even bother to bring him up? Should I still try to make a move like a kiss close even though she has "warned" me?

Edit: I don't even know who this guy is, I really just met this girl when she randomly walked into my dorm room and sat there and talked to me for like 30 min. before her friends showed up.

Yeah, go for it. She wouldn't agree to a date if she was serious about the other guy... focus on you and her, and for fuck sake don't mention him because it'll only reinforce his image in the back of her mind. If you make a big deal out of it then so will she and it'll just ruin everything for both of you.

IN my experience...which I'll admitt, I'm not exactly a subject matter expert (also a newb here) she seems to be pre-warning as an out, rather than a complete shut down.
Kinda seeing someone, is like, kinda seeing you too.. If she was not interested at all, I think she woulda came out and denied you completely, and said something to the effect of, "ok, but just as friends alright?", rather than just give herself the out...

This kinda date requires a lot of game... You're going to have to knock her socks off dude!

I feel like im pretty good at cocky funny, cause thats just who I am already. We have been communicating primarily by facebook messages for like a week now, because were both real busy, we have yet to set the actual time. But we have had pretty regular communication throughout, so I would assume she is still interested.

Showing her value is not the problem, I can do that well. I go to B-school, so I can pull a lot from my attitude and experiences related to that into my game, its closing where I struggle. We both are Sophs in the dorms, she does live in the same building as me, any advice on a close? Either try to get her back to my room or close infront of/in her room? (Man, screw roomates)

I don't wanna steer you in the wrong direction, (as I am new also) but from the sounds of it, based on your situation you would need to plant that seed early on in the date for the close.

Get her to visualize that close beforehand through some playful banter and foreshadowing. Then when the time comes, your nerves will be able to revisit that scenario that has already been established more easily, rather than both standing at one of your doors and staring at eachother thinking "uhhh.. what now.." (I have been in that situation many times)

I know there are terms for these routines and tactics, but sorry, I am pretty new and I have done so much reading in the last while it's all jumbled in my brain.

I try and remember......everybody poops.. even Elisha Cuthbert...This usually sets my mind at ease and makes it so I can still see every prospect as unique, yet ultimately the same.

If she said she is 'kinda seeing someone' and she agreed to go out on a date with you then:
1. She isn't very serious with the guy at all. Probably not even a full committed relationship yet.
2. She likes you more than this guy.

So just go for it man. Keep dazzling her with your wit, and at the same time try to create an emotional connection (looking into her eyes, laughing at each other's jokes, telling her you feel a connection between you two). Make sure you start kino escalating early and don't be afraid to hug her when she says something that makes you happy. When you go for the kiss close, I don't think she will turn it down, especially if you use a good routine to build it up.

(Oh, and if possible try and start the date at your place, so she becomes more comfortable there. Afterwards she will be much more easily convinced to stop by for a night cap or for you to 'show' her something.)

ok ive been in this type of situation before .... what u need to do is first DONT MENTION HIM..... secondly get close to her etc then u need to use push and pull get her wipped on you..........

you need to make sure she never goes back to him though


i done mine wrong.....and lost her ..... but stepped my game up

Do not say anything bad about the other guy. Just support her when she does. Try to be understanding like: Hes just insecure and nervous about you. Hes probably a nice guy.
Or: Well, hes the jealous type, afraid to be left alone I guess, thats common. He probably have other sides thats ok.

Kind of seeing someone - Translation - She is looking for something better, can you show higher value so that she has more to base her choice on.