so i f ed up completely.... help me here. this might even make it to a sticky , so im gaming a HB8.5 who is a cheerleader at my local college, we are at a party me her and her roomate, she goes home early cause she dont feel good i stay out with the roomate, on our walk home the roomate tells me i should stay cause HB8.5 really likes me and i should go cuddle with her, so i do and i wake up at 4am and realized in my drunkeness i PISSED in her bed! i then went outside i dont know why and got locked out! so my clothes my wallet and phone... everything is there. so i have to work in the morning and i go to work all day i cant call her cause she has my phone and so when i come home all my shit is in the hallway of my apt complex. so it looks like i just pissed and left! now i wouldnt care normally if she wasnt a cheerleader and didnt have such a strong social network... how do i recover to save myself from being known at my college by everyone as the guy who pees in beds?

Hey dude.

Believe it or not this isn't that uncommon. I got a buddy in a fraternity in Washington. He's pissed on like 3 girls (drunkenly and accidentally of course) and most of the guys in his house have some similar story.

I would say if you don't make it into a big thing she probably won't either. Send her a text from someone elses phone and say something like this:

"I don't mind if you piss the bed but can I at least have my phone back??"

She'll definately know it's you.

If she has a sense of humor she'll probably laugh. As long as you don't piss the bed again I'm sure you'll be fine. But seriously, don't piss the bed again.

If she doesn't think it's funny... well you're just gonna have to wait it out till everyone forgets about that (believe me people forget really fast). I've done my fair share of stupid things in the past and people seem to have filed that away and forgotten about it.

CPT

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I'm sorry to hear about your situation. But this isn't what I was getting at with this thread. Like Zip mentioned, this isn't about one-itis cases and it isn't about saving your reputation. This thread was meant for guys that truly found someone they like, and may even love but made a mistake and want to get the girl back....a girl that is still in reach, but that needs an apology etc... I don't believe this formula applies to your case.

this sint one-itis i just really f'ed up i thought it fit, but thanks for the advice guys

I moved this post to the newbie section, where it originally belonged. Please adhere to the forum rules and post where appropriate. It takes up too much of my time moving stuff around and not helping people

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