OK here is the situation.

I currently work with the hb 9.5 and only over the last 2 weeks have got to know her.

Over the 2 weeks we have flirty banter in work, me and my other friend soend alot of time with her on our lunch breaks and play pool etc she is happy to spend time with us.

Ok so in the week she is invited to a party from someone from our workplace, as she does not know many people at the party she asks if i will come with her and she will go out with me and my friends after the party.

I take her number and say i will call her on the day of the party. I ring her a couple of times and she is responsive and friendly on the phone and is happy to speak to me.

7pm and i arrive at the party and she is waiting outside for me looking smoking hot!! She says i look nice and smart and we go into the party.

8pm and things start going into a gray area from now on.

Few litle iois through out the night and the odd bit of kino asking me to feel her legs saying their muslcey and how soft they feel and stuff like that.

Ok the night goes from ok to bad in a short peroid of time, we get out from the party and go to meet my friends and we go to a bar, and from then on she seems to go into a bit of shell. 1 hour passes and then she says she wants to go and says sorry and the usual speil so i drive her home.

Arrive and her house! Ok nothing happend and i did not try anything becuase i am in the grey area i do not know how she sees our relationship. She did say goodnight and as she was getting out the car was kind of waiting for me to do something. but if i tried something and messed it up it would be really arkward in work etc.

At first i think yeh she likes me, she is asking me to go to this party with her and she is giving some iois and i feel abit like she fancies me.

But at 1 stage during the night she says to me i really like you, and then puses for a second and then says as friend. Because of the pause i think she might have been of covering her back incase i was not responsive to it.

But i am in the grey area i do not know how she sees me, just as a friend or someone she wil like to see again and maybe take things further.

Signs of her liking me

.Invited me in the first place
.Bought me alot of drinks throughout the night.
.Happy to be alone with me, flirty banter and little bits of kino. Asking me to touch her leg etc.
.I text her when she got home saying some stuff etc and she text back straight away saying thank you for texting me and being nice.

Signs of, lets just be friends.

.Telling me on 1 or two times that other lads were hot in the bar etc.
.Said she likes me, then two second pause and said as a friend.
.Going home early and being a bit iresponsive.

My friend said from seeing us together on the night she fancies me and the fact she asked me to go in the first place is a big ioi.


i just need some help and advice on where to take it from here. and from me telling you the situation what you think she sees me as.

Seems like she likes you, you just need to escalate. The fact that she said some other guys at the bar were hot, that was a shit test she wanted to see your reaction. If you dont make it clear that you want more than friends then you will be stuck as friends.

Yeh i though it might be a shit test, i just passed it off and said yeh i would do him too etc.

Well i will try to escolate, like i said still abit of a grey area but will try escolating and see where i can take it.

Just play it by ear and see if i can get any more clues on the best way to take this hb 9.5