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| Sheer Con | PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 1:45 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Mon Aug 18, 2008 12:55 pm Posts: 213 | | so winter of last year I came across this whole pua thing while surfing the net and in it I saw answers to all the questions I've been asking my whole life so of course I started trying to learn as much as I could. When I first started applying pua theory into my personality, one night still sticks out in my mind...
It was at a house party with ppl i'd known for at least a month prior and I went from being pretty shy to stacking C/F routines (c/f is what i started out with for the most part). I was bringing it on pretty strong and most of the people watching me were like where did this come from?? after I accused a girl of trying to seduce me, one girl even looked me dead in the eye and said "you're not hot!" wrecked my frame, ruined my night, tho it was probably a shit test and I should have plowed right through. Just wanted to get some opnions on this cause every once in a while when im doing c/f this time comes back to cast some doubt in my mind..
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| madals | PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 4:04 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator Emeritus | Joined: Tue Apr 08, 2008 2:13 pm Posts: 2151 | | U should have either ignored it on come out with something C&F.
"Now i told u that you would look fine with glasses....."
"Well i am glad to know u fancy me for less shallow reasons"
et cetc
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| Solomon II | PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 4:07 pm | |
Joined: Sun Jan 27, 2008 2:18 pm Posts: 914 Location: Belfast, N. Ireland | | Simple shit test. You need to work on your frame by the sounds of this; I'm guessing that things don't go to plan for you as often as you'd like and that's fine, we all get that... you shouldn't let it get to you. If you know you're a cool guy and girls want to be with you, that you are the prize and not them, then you should keep this in mind at all times. It'll improve your attitude and how you react to these tests a lot. You shouldn't worry about anything they say or what they might be thinking about, all that matters is what she feels, so you should be figuring that out and using it to your advantage. As for little tests like that, I have a simple rule... agree with them, make fun of it and move right on before they get a chance to react. For example, in that scenario you should have plowed with: "Why are you trying to seduce me then? Come on, let's go find someone who is more your type.". Roll off while looking over your shoulder and invite her to follow you with your body language. This will cause one of the following possible outcomes:
1. She says she can do that by herself and walks off. Good job on getting rid of a time waster and a genuine bitch! Now you're free to meet other girls instead. However, if she says this and stays with you, it's just another test and you should invite her to go do it. Keep plowing.
2. She says no and stays with you. Her bitch shield should now be diffused and you can have a normal conversation with her. Keep plowing and making fun of her for staying to talk when she isn't attracted to you... eventually she'll start qualifying. If not, ask her other questions which make her qualify herself to you.
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| Mr.Boombastic | PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 4:17 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Sep 14, 2008 8:29 am Posts: 27 | | "ya i know i am cool, thx for noticing. and who are you? making bright observations like that?"
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