Anyway, its obvious that you want to approach as many girls as you can, as quick as can perhaps. (Which may or may not be applicable sometimes.) But these are my question: Is it better just to go through and crash and burn rather than just do nothing? or perhaps I should re-frame the reality, be more carefree and relaxed? What would you guys do with your inhibitions? Although, I guess the point of doing this is to just talk to people until they no longer intimidate you.

Peace

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All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him. -- Buddha (the playa)

im reading this book called the layguide. which is also the first book style read when he started out. im just finishing the approach section and yes it better to crash and burn. and when your down for the day go home and review the things you did and how u can improve.

It's better to make the mistakes in field then to critique yourself afterwards. Remember that every set lost, every girl that turns you down, it is your fault. Take each failure as a learning experience and move on.

I see what you guys mean. A lazy SOB might be tempted to find an easy way out. But if you go out there and do the work you can almost analyze your mistakes constructively. But you can only do this if you are honest with yourself and say, these are my mistakes, this is what I did wrong and this is how I'm going to fix it. Interesting...

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All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him. -- Buddha (the playa)

I crashed and burned earlier today in the mall. I saw this HB9 sitting alone in the corner of the food court. I walked by and said hey, you look really bored so I thought I would come flirt with you. I made good eye contact, smiled, it just was bad timing. She looked super sad and said "leave me the fuck alone right now!" I was like oh shit. That was the first time a chick ever yelled at me. I was like, "I'm sorry your having such a bad day, but you don't have to be a bitch to me". Didn't know what else to do. I learned though I guess, don't sarge on a pissed off or sad looking girl?

Dude, that crazy bitch wasn't worth it anyway!
I would have joked "it must be that time of the month again..."

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"The Game.... Is 90% Confidence, 9% Technique, and 1% Looks. You can't win unless you play it"