So I dated this one girl for 2 and half years and then we broke up. This was about 5 years ago. We have kept in contact somewhat, message on facebook occassionally. And now she has agreed to meetup at the university and go for coffee. I'm kind of nervous for this meetup, I'm not sure what to expect or what frame of mind to have... Are there things we should and shouldn't talk about for example? What is the gravity of this situation? Is this like an interview to see if I've changed to date again or is this just us trying to be friends again?

Why did it end? thats what you need to look at really

Without more info we cannot give accurate advice

im guessing it was a normal lost feeling break up and if not who cares either way......i dont see what your confused about....just go to the date not acting like a whipped pussy ass bitch and you should be fine.....

im big on the confidence thing just have positive attitude dont be nervous about what will happen cause that will set you back.....be fun, tease a bit perhaps, body language, confident just all the thing an alpha male would have.....be comfortable around her, good conversatoina and have about you a fun playful teasing confident nature..this type of behavior will present an aura that is just fun to be around and with luck and skill on yoru part she will wnat to hang agian....

really what your worried about is fucking up.........and right there thats afc behavior, thats the type of thing that will get you worrying omg she isnt talking what do i say....

....its a bit of both this hang out, you havent seen each other in awhile so sure see an old friend woudlnt be bad, but there is always the chance no matter how slim of always getting back toghther so really this hang out couuld go either way just as friend or seeing if your dateable again...

what NOT to talk about?....things that stir up a heated debate (argument) and whatever else woudl piss her off.......your gonna have to thiink what that is we dont know the girl....some guy could tell you dont talk about politics well maybe she loves politics could talk about it all day in which case id say go ahead,

and either way she is hanging with you maybe she is just as worried omg what do i say what do i do....dont think she is going into this cool and calm even though she may be

and what to talk about......sure keep a conversation but get rid of that mind set that it is YOUR JOB to keep the conversation alive and that you have to do everything to make this night fun........

your to much pressure on yourself

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