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 Post subject: Basics, Open to Close.
PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 10:01 pm 
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Opening:
Keep body language and tonality in mind
Open posing as your just there by coincedence.
Women, do have manners!
If your like me, and you have to have something to talk about or you feel like a dumbass, read the paper, watch a tv show that's popular at the time or similar.
Place a false time constraint.
An item, and posing a question about such while placing it in there hands can start a good opening. (as Jsquared put it, place shit in peoples hands and their bound to fuck with it, and since it's yours.. go figure.
Know your phases, and/or signs
Radiate confidence and humor/energy
Transition:
phase shift from open, hence "Transition"
noe what she/they say and make it congruent!
Convey enthusiasm/energy, or you'll come off as a dick
Cold reads & such could come into play (or a good time to think about them)
Transistion = observation
Skipping can cause awkwardness further on.
Attraction:
She becomes interested on a different level (your level)
-know your expectations, and insert what matters here-
Display Value
-Reffering to being friends + expectations = +1 to attraction
Disqualify her, makingyour appearance challenging, yet display the fact(s) your not hitting on her.
-push/pull-
she becomes attracted/curious about you
points of good measure: kino-faux interest-gets personal
---once you achieve this phase move quickly---
Qualify/Qualification:
Inverse of attraction: Like giving her an attraction phase, with you!!
Solidifies her attraction to you, built in the prev phase.
refer to expectations and let her dhv upon them/those
Find out if she really meets your expectations
-become congruent-
compliment congruency = revealing her
weave conversation with/between the qualifications
let her know she "impresses" you, don't make her try hard. But don't let her hook you on the first thing.
Comfort:
comfort => K-close/#-close/ectera
keep and maintain Attraction/qualification
maximize the time spent
capitalize on getting her on your terms, but let her know she's in for the best time ever by being with you -[push-pull]-

there are alot of things that can go in and out of those but thats the general theme and idea to get wrapped up on. I've read a few books and matched up some of my field experience.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 10:24 pm 
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Your making it too much of a set list or guideline you have to follow. try to be yourself at least a little itll make it easier. Otherwise you summerized most points very well seems like youve done your research :D


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 10:27 pm 
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i hear ya, it's just a basic guild-line to help ppl out, ill through in a situational context to show and display it all perhaps. but if you think about it, it's not all that difficult, esp when you actually think about it.

opening is as quick as a line, and transitioning is the same or faster in just her/thier response... it just depends on ppls levels and such. this is just a mini skeleton to the craft


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