Hehe by now i expect people are starting to get sick of me, basically would it be worth the long term hassle to attempt to get with a flat mate?

It's fresher's week and i've been out getting to know a LOT of people but one of my flat mates does make me feel happy inside, but by no means is it one-itis!!

In short is it worth persuing this flat mate for a good time or should i simply shut her out for fear of it leading to too many implications in the future (after all i have to live with her for another 9 months).

By the way i AM aware of the middle ground of just having her as a friend.

im gonna take it as what you mean by flat mate is room mate which she will be staying with you for the next 9 months.....id say why let someone tell you what to do....i say its up too you'

you can either try and game her and hook up with her for the 9 months or you can get close to her you know act alpha, tease, playful, whatever you do to game but not get sexual with her and hang with her on occaasion and hook up with her friends or hook up with other girls whenever you want

its just a matter of what you really want too do

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This is the essence of the risk/reward dilema. Maybe it will work out great, maybe it won't; it's up to you whether the risk is worth the reward though. I've tried it and it ended after a month and the next 7 were pretty uncomfortable, but I'd do it again if I were attracted to a girl; that's just me though.

There's plenty of other girls, so if you aren't crazy for her, she's just one girl you are kinda attracted to, then I'd suggest going for someone else, as it is a little safer.

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