| I agree with Bliss,
Agreeing to be in a secluded spot with you, gives strong IOI, and a huge amount of trust.
Find a scenic vista (ie waterfall, spectacular view, etc...) that's off the path.
Let me give you something I did. (I'm still an AFC btw)
I live in a National Forest working at a store for the summer, I ask a coworker out after flirting with her for a week. (There's like 40 people in the community so Mystery's Tribal theory of not screwing up your chances with other available mates in your tribe, thus your genes become extinct was never more true than in this place)
We go on a hike, I show her this great place off the path that gives a great sunset. (I came prepared for the hike back in the dark)
I set up the blanket to sit and watch. We talk, we start holding hands, I move myself over to her we snuggle, we got cold we put the blanket over us and snuggle more. I did not push for a K-close for fear of tribal revolt. (In reality I was AFC scarred, but in light of MM Tribal Theory it was plausible to not.)
Fast forward 10 years, I meet this girl online, first date, we drive randomly end up in the forest, end up at a dead end with an OK view of tree tops, set up a picnic, I suggest watching the clouds, something I say I haven't done since I was a kid, (I do it on every date that doesn't know a previous gf.)
Its windy, I have a sleeping bag, we jump in the sack and watch the clouds for a while, I move in for a kiss, she resists, I go back to snuggling point to a cloud on my side so she has to look over me, I turn towards her we kiss, she recipricates, if I had a condom we would have F-closed on the mountain.
My advice, get her to a remote area, do some cliche romantic stuff, raise Kino, escalate and be a prepared boyscout.
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