Hey All,

It’s been a while since I’ve been on here; I’ve read some material and have been in the field practicing.

So at one stage (4weeks ago) I felt like the man, had 3 girls on the go, one of them my hairdresser…and I was like this is cool.

Anyhow one of those 3 turns out to be a real sweetie(cut the other 2 loose)…I’ve been hanging out with her a little, doing coffee, movies, walks on the beach…you know….

Yet I’m feeling a little complacent with my sarging…feeling a little for her…don’t know how to play it…

I think I’d feel bad if I was out there gaming other girls, she’s going through some heavy family shit at the mo…don’t wont to hurt her….

Yet I really want to see how good I can get with my game.

I need some guidance….

It's good that you cut the other two loose. There's nothing to say you have to constantly be getting new girls to be a good PUA, or have the correct lifestyle for it.

If you like her, why kick her to the side for a potential stranger? You wouldn't do that to a guy friend, so what makes her any different.
Stick with her. Especially as she has the family difficulties. Just don't end up going AFC and everything. Support her through it, but still remain alpha.

Hey man i know exactly what your feeling, i've been there. Its hard when you want to develop your game and become a really good PUA, but just remember at the end of the day having a good girlfriend is better than being a good PUA.
Most people get into this whole seduction world so that they can score a great gf, but in the process they start to focus on numbers, impressing guys with how good they are with girls and how many girls can they score with. If an amazing girl comes along and things progress well i think you should give it a go.
Having an awesome gf is better than being an awesome PUA.

Thanks for the advice guys.