I'm new to this forum so I can't start this thread in field reports so here will do. I'm being as precise and clear as possible with out going into many details.


My former mentor of PUA from my high school likes the same girl I do. His name is Toro and right now he is better at game than me but I am still pretty good. The problem is that we both really like her and don't want to give her up. I initially liked her and Toro supported me then he admitted to me that he now likes her since he has grown closer to her recently. Usually its a matter of "dibs" but we both are emotionally attached. We are actually really good friends and do not want a girl to come between our friendship. We have discussed and argued over what to do. Should we both compete for her? Should we just leave her alone and sarge other girls (as if that were possible)? Toro has told me that he would let me have her but the next day was flirting like crazy with her. What should I do? I'm not going to let him steal this girl from me but I just want this issue to resolve. Oh and she has a boyfriend but thats not really an issue, he's a douchbage. We both have had the same response to this. We both have flirted like crazy with the other girls we have as prospects because we were so pissed off. Now Toro and I are back to being friends but are completely stuck in this situation and don't know a good way to get out.
Posts are appreciated and wanted. We want your opinion.

If you were true PUAs you wouldnt get hung up on a girl. Youd go sarging

The feeling will pass. I say both of you stop flirting with her completely, sarge and f-close 3 girls each, then see if you are really that interested. I had a huge crush on this friend of mine for over a year and now that I've played the field more, I don't really care.

Or you can tag team

you both should forget about her one girl isnt worth losing a friendship, but whatever way would help you get over her is probably the best way to go

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this happened to me and my wing. I left for spring break and when I got back he and one of my fuck buddies decided that they really like each other. I really liked her too, but I figured eh there's plenty of girls out there I'll find a different one. I'll be honest for about a month it sucked balls seein them together. It was the first time I've ever been jealous my entire life. Instead of letting the jealousy eat me up I used the pissed off energy it gave me to make massive improvements in both my fitness and my self awareness. After about a month I no longer cared as much what they did and was able to almost completely let it go. I saw both of them the entire time as both of them are pretty much my best friends and I had not too much choice. Anyways there have been all kinds of issues with my wing and the girl. She apparently turned out to be a total emotional mess. She believes sex is basically of the devil, so he never gets laid, and her mom controls her every action even though she's almost 20 years old. I have no regrets for the decision I made. The initial pain caused such massive growth in me that I am actually very happy about what happened. I have grown much more as a person than they did through that relationship. Granted not every relationship is like this. Sometimes they work out great. I am just telling you a tale of caution before you go all in on this girl. Another thing I want to mention is that the choice was mutual between us. They both told me that in order to keep friendship with me I could choose for them not to go forward with the relationship. I'm the one that chose for them to go out. I would suggest this between you guys and that girl. Someone must choose. I made my choice because I saw two of my good friends wanting something so badly. I felt that I couldn't let my ego get involved in my choice, and so the most selfless act was to give them what they wanted. This strengthened my friendship tremendously with both of them. I have two friends that would die for me and a strengthened mind and body. The decision you make is your choice, but whichever one you make, know that it was your choice and it is what you thought would best at the time.
Live, learn, love,
Ty

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Love that.. and if any of you have ever watched "Clerks II" (the pillowpants chapter)..it just totally recaptured my expression of that moment for me. lol

Yeah bro. Same thing happened to me, but jelousy will ruin you. Personally I would just say "ya know, be my guest and take her bro. I wouldn't be a douchebag to a friend over a girl he liked. Would you?"

I'd probably just shovel that out there, but that's just me anyways.
(you can test him as a bro. put yourself on a higher plane than him.)

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I dont know, what came to my mind is that I'd talk with the guy and propose that both continue to game the girl and may the best pua win
hahaha

once I was in a birthday with a friend of mine, we both got interested in a girl, so we said to each other "well, lets try our luck" I tried to game her but my friend got her, and after that even started a relationship with her... I didnt really care, some competition feels good to me
altho I didnt had any emocional bond with the girl...

fuckin a man, you guys should compete. and now i'm ganna give you some pointers so you get the upperhand here.


use all his favorite lines.... so when he uses em, they are ineffective.

dont talk junk about him, that will just raise her curiosity about him chicks are weird.

keep your game subtle, i.e. instead of comments on myspace. leave messages so he doesnt know if you are working her or not.



or you could just cockblock both of you by posting on your friends myspace;

*girls name*, *Pua competitons name* wants to touch your butthole.


nothing will send a girl packing faster then that.