Had day 2 with this African HB 8 today. I saw her when she was working in the grocery shop and I got her number. From there I sent her a message and she sent me tons. I answered about 50 % of them. I then called her after about 1 week and had a chat for 10 minutes and I was the one leaving the conversation first. I then texted her about meeting up for some coffe and she agree on that. She seemed really into me. Met her today, however, we had some problems finding each other. I should have told her to meet at a better location. I get her to the bus stop where I buy some stuff at 7 Eleven while she’s waiting. Trying to do takeaways all the time now. This chick is really talkative, never dated such a talkative chick. On dates I usually do most of the talking, but at this one she’s doing most of it.

I sort of felt that she steered too much of the conversation. However, what should I’ve done? Several times when I tried to say something she was cutting me off. I’m leading all the time though. After the bus ride I take her to my apartment for a quick look, I have to drink a protein shake anyway. From there we’re going to the caffe place. I’m trying to do some games here and then, and she says that’s some weird stuff I’m bringing. Guess I should bring it on more natural. After the coffe shop (where I’m paying), I get her to a bench near my apartment where I kiss before I pull back. Everytime we kissed she was the one chasing me.

After a while at my apartment we’re laying on top of each other and making out. She then asks me if I’ve tested myself for aids, herpes etc. I tell her that if one uses a condom none of that will happen. When we’re at my apartment she keeps saying that sex doesn’t happen on the first date. I say the same thing that one should have trust first. After some special massage by me she’s really down for kissing. I kiss her and decides that it’s time for removing her bra. I begin kissing up on her t-shirt before I take it off. I then try to get her horny by licking her pants where her pussy’s at. I also sircle my finger around her pussyspot. However, when I try to remove her pants she says that we’re moving too fast. I say cool and try my first LMR tactic ever. I just begin watching some movie at my computer. However, I’m kinda feeling bad because I feel that I’m using her. Need to remove this thought. She doesn’t initiate touching after a while so I decide to do it again. I turn of the lights, and pull the curtains. In addition, I turn on the music. It’s time for a new try. When I turned off the music she took on her t-shirt again. I do the same thing with kissing her t-shirt and it goes off again. I now begin kissing her bra too and she hints that she wants it off.

I take it off and begin to massage and lick her boobs which she says she loves. After a short while I try to remove her pants again, but with no luck. I then decide to make her so horny that she’ll take it off, and after some minutes I try again. However, she still doesn’t want to do it. The time is about 5PM now and that means that I’ve known her for a little under 3 hours, maybe too little? I then begin to cuddle with her instead and she says that sex should wait till last time. She also says that if a girl sleeps with a guy too fast he’ll just run away. I know that she likes me says she looves my voice and that it’s so warm.

Also, she says that I’m nice and goodlooking, I think she sees me as relationship quality. She asks me how many girls I’ve been with and for how long my longest relationship has been. I run a story about me wanting to fuck this girl because I felt that we didn’t have a connection (sort of make it up). Moreover, I keep telling her that I like her looks and personality. I felt a “special” connection with her. However, I just can’t go into a relationship with this girl. She’s very interesting and she looks pretty good, but her talking all the fucking time drives me krazy.

After a while she says that she wants to go to sleep and we try to sleep for a little while, but it doesn’t happen. I also say that I don’t like it when girls only has sex and leaves me, I “like” to be with every girl that I fuck. I have to clean the apartment and reach the train anyway. She takes on all her clothes again and helps washes my dirty dishes (yes! ). After a while we’re leaving the apartment and she’s following me to the train station.

Good:
Went through many locations in order to build comfort.
Good at leading her through the different locations. Even though she did most of the talking I was the boss when it came to what we’re were going to do etc.
Don’t know if it’s really a good thing, but I didn’t use that much routines this time.

Could’ve been better:
I sort of acted needy. I wasn’t that horny I just wanted another girl I’ve layed to my list.
Kind of felt bad for trying to fuck her while I’ll leave her anyway.
My LMR tactics for sure. Need more solid tactics here, I’m going to work on that.

Anyway, I felt that this was a really good experience for me because I’ve never been so close and gotten LMRs. Good for practice.