| Hey guys. im new to this forum but im not neccesarily new to the game, ive been into it for a while but im still in education so i dont get to work on it much.
Recently however i started a new school, theres a lot of girls, and a lot of HBs, more importantly. One time i was in my friendship group, chilling, when this HB with blonde hair, blue eyes, little bit shorter than me (sweet! im short btw. like 5"5 or something) and dressed well, she just walks into our group comfortably and talks to a friend of mine who she knew, hugs him and shit. and basically just invited herself in.
i reacted to this in two ways in my head, one of which was to be annoyed, she thinks shes great, which is obvious. maybe shes hiding something?
the other way i reacted was to be attracted to her, shes fucking hot and that further made me annoyed.
However, things went well from here, i pretty much ignored all of her attention whoring tactics and just spoke to the people i knew pretty much, but i am an alpha male in my friendship group, pretty much, so i knew this built some attraction. she also found out im a ski instructor at the local dry ski slope, which didnt happen by me boasting, more accidental, she has been to the dry slope. she was like "im impressed!" and everything, then went on to tell me that the snowboard instructor who taught her is so hot and everything. so the netx time we spoke i said "hamish (the guy) and i spoke at work the other day" she was like interested and i said "he sais hes been thinking about you" and then i told her i was messing with her. i think this gave two good messages, it shows im not chasing her in any way and that i dont care about her feeling secure or anything.
later on, i was with her, her friend, and a friend of mine, all girls, at lunch break. we had a free period after so i just goes "man im tired, im gonna get some shut-eye before last lesson and use this free period for that" n shit. used my jacket as a pillow, and lied down, she was over somewhere else bugt when she realised i was sleeping she comes over and shares my pillow. we talk quite a bit over this free perdiod but i wasnt directing conersation, i was letting the conversation come to me, sometimes i would add input to something that interested me directly, however.
this is where i need some advice, her friend was taking pictures of everyone and she took a few of her, and i was in the picture lying next to her, she sais "it looks like we're going out" and i didnt really say much, cant remember, dont even think i said anything, but i was subtle.
what does this mean?
anyway, moving on. last night i went out with some friends and she was in the same club, we chilled out in the smoking area alot with our friendship group and she sat next to me quite a lot, getting quite close. a bit later i was stood up talking to her and some female friends as they were sat down and she sais "wanna sit down?" and makes space next to her, so i sat down, she invited me to rest my head on her shoulder later when a female friend did so on her other shoulder. then later on she did the same to me, untill i had to go, when i left she was sat down so i just shook her hand and said take care and everything.
im gonna see her at school soon, where should i take this? im pretty sure shes attracted to me , shes recently come out of a bad relationship, which shes told me about, so i wanna know her motives. how should i progress?
thanks guys
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