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When I first came into this game, I was at one of my lowest points with women I felt I had ever been. I had severe one-itis and was just about ready to give up on relationships, and then I came across this forum. I memorized techniques, went out into the field, practiced, and although I didn't get spectacular results I learned a great deal about myself and have never been as confident or outgoing as I am now.
Now here's where things get tricky. I'm a sophomore right now in college, and I'm constantly focused on my studies, my friends, and my hobbies such as weight lifting and swimming. The one-itis that brought me here in the first place has since vanished, girls(while not what I would consider dateable) are starting to approach me, and I'm getting number/facebook closes every few days. But when it comes to sarging constantly(daygaming mostly), I have no motivation to go out because I feel perfectly content right now with who I am, and I don't want relationships right now. Hell, I couldn't care less if I f-closed girls at bars or set up day-2's. I'm just way to busy to focus on girls and I feel that it is starting to affect my progress.
So for those that don't feel like reading all this: I know what it takes to attract girls now - I don't have any more one-itis - Does it matter if I keep sarging seriously or not? Can't I just continue to learn game casually, at a slower pace and have fun?
In my mind the whole point about learning this game in the first place is to get to the notion of BEING able to be comfortable in your own shoes, Attracting women is just the icing on the cake. Dude... even so called "Naturals" want to sit on the bench sometimes and not play the whole forth quarter...feel me? If you feel content in your life, who are we to say what makes you, YOU?
So go for it... or better yet, don't.
CHAT