Concerns an ex. We split up as both were travelling, now she is back. Have had constant email rapport while we've been away so I assume it would be easy to meet up now she's back...

I told her my plans for the weekend a good few days before and instead of asking if she'd come. I said it would be fun and come along!

She has fired back saying shes meeting some friends this weekend that she hasn't caught up with yet and is fully booked with them.

I want to suggest going for coffee during the week instead, how should I ask this to set up day 2? I've used the I'm having fun come along method. I feel I have to be more direct now as we live in different towns so it wouldn't be a chance encounter.

Also how much game to use on an ex? I want to show I have very HV and and have vastly improved myself and my inner game.

Edit- yes this is somewhat oneitus, but it aint gonna go away untill I get closure whichever way it plays out.