| Plus I Got Shit Tested.
I have been gaming this girl from work for the past week. I have known her for over 2 years. I asked her out once before when she had a BF, i got turned down and placed in the LJBF zone. I completely cut off communication with her. They broke up about a 2 months ago i waited to make sure they didn't get back together. I invited her over to my kickback party that i was having friday. I told her about it tuesday, reminder her thursday in case it wouldnt happen or i wouldnt see her again this week. I saw her at work yesterday (Friday). I asked her "did you make time?". She responded "I'm not sure yet or I dont know". I kept asking her for her phone # which she refuses to give to me. She wont make eye contact with me she tends to be shy. I told her "look up at me" she did and then quickly turned back down. I dont think she could look me in the eye because she is shy. I think i messed up by telling her "I think you know, your just not telling me".
If she doesnt act like she wanna goes, punish her, ignore her, if she acts like she does, reward her. sounds like youve fucked your chances up already, 2 years is a long time. just show disinterest and if she wants things to happen she will have to instigate them.
She later came back in to the store with her sister. I was on register and checked them out.
Here is where I got Shit Tested.
She is talking to her sister.
***reminder i had invited her over to my kickback party on the same day.
HB:"are we going to _____ house tonight?"
sister:"No, I dont think i will be going"
HB:"I'm going" (smiles at me and i smile back)
sister:"No, Your not"
I don't know if I just go shut down with a smile on her face or if she is trying to get me angry/jealous/shit testing me? I wrote her a poem should i give it to her? when i see her at work, what should i make my next move ? (I will only see her for about 1 or 2 min tomorrow)
dont give her a poem. wtf. that isnt cool. you needa stop acting like a wuss. your giving her control she doesnt know what to do with. you needa say "come to my place friday" and if she does "uh i dno" go "whatever then, suit yourself" DO NOT CARE. you do not care about this girl, dont let her know that, otherwise she will take advantage. you asked her for her number, she didnt give, these are all bad signs.
***more info***
-She accepted me as a friend on MySpace (messaged twice didnt respond)
My best friend was hanging with her at work this one night. He saw a finger condom that vibrates you use it to finger a girl(yeah its weird, but real at our store). He showed it to her and she said "I need someone to use that on me". She didn't mean to say those words. Then i heard laughter in the store they came walking out of an aisle and she gave me a look. One of those looks where she new where i was and wanted to look at me for some reason. About 5 min. later she came around the register I tried approaching her, but my friend didn't know i was trying to seduce her once again. My friend screams out "Jerry, come over here!" so he pretty much cock blocked me. He told me when i was heading towards him the HB nodded her head and her lips were moving saying "NOOO" in silence. She was trying to tell him not to tell me what she had just said.
shes not giving you IOIs, dont give her any, stop approaching. she must come to you
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