| So i'm starting to notice a lot of guys are making this mistake, and i think its time to set the record straight:
Girls like guys who smile, and guys who make them laugh, not guys who laugh themselves.
ok before you flame my brains out here, let me explain. Laughter is a sign of submissivness. in a group, the dominant will make all the submissives, laugh but not laugh himself, thereby retaining his dominance. when guys say, "she had a great sense of humor" they really mean, "she laughed at everything i said". and when girls say, "we laughed the whole night." she really means, "i laughed at his jokes all night." studies have shown that women are attracted to men that can make them laugh, and that men are attracted to women who laugh at there jokes. this would explain why having a sense of humor is so important to women when they are describing male traits they want there guys to have. HOWEVER, this does not mean, that you should attempt to not laugh when you find something funny; doing that will cause you to show non-verbal cues of repression, and will come off as uneasy to the girl, DLV you. but if you find yourself forcing laughs at everything you hear to try to come off as fun loving, you should take steps to stop it, if shes telling you a story and you see shes looking for signs of approval from you, are best off smiling at her. ok thats all i had to say
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