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Alright, so there's this girl at my school. I don't think she is a bitch with her friends, but it seems like she is very insecure and needs to validate herself by being bitchy to people. So anyways, without further ado.
I go up to this girl (remember she is stuck up) and neg the shit out of her.
I got some IOI's. She's like "Who are you?" I told her something and then she said "No your name." I think this is where I messed up, I continued to neg her after that. So now she is being a real bitch to me.
I sent her a message on myspace.
Me: Hey, What's up?
Her: Ew...
Me: What's so gross?
Her: You... Talking to me...
Me: Yea I didn't want to talk to you either. So what's up?
She didn't respond.
Any advice from here would be appreciated. How can I make her put her guard down?
In my opinion, You neg'ed her too much. After you had her interested you continued to neg her which made things worse then where they were in the first place.
When you messaged her on Myspace here is what you should have done.
YOU: "hey whats up?"
Her:"ewww..."
YOU: "Sorry, I didnt mean to talk to you... hit the wrong button."***
**Just so you know I am not exactly sure how the messages work on Myspace, but on Facebook that line would work...
You should have seen what she said in responce to that and kept gaming. Also I think it was kind of lame to ask her "so whats up" a second time... You should have stated something rather than asking a question you already asked.
My suggestion: Move on... this girl situation is too far gone to save.