Bit of a long story this one.

Few weeks ago went on a date with a HB8. It went well and I managed to K-Close.

Thing is, she is a single mom and struggles for a babysitter. We also live about an hour's drive from each other and she doesn't drive!

To cut a long story short, she wouldn't meet me with the kids as she doesn't want to introduce a man to the kids until she was "in a relationship". Yet she doesn't have a babysitter so she can't meet up with me enough for it to progress to that.

So I took a risk and gave her the "LJBF" routine to neutralise that rule. Since I did that she's been DHVing me and trying to show me what I'm potentially missing out on. Anyway, I'm meeting her tomorrow again and was wondering what my strategy would be.

My plan so far is to treat this like a proper date with the kino etc. But not to kiss her again. If I do then the control is passed over to her. My logic is that i should save the kissing until another time and the more I can make her want me, the more effort she will make in meeting me.

Does that all make sense or am I talking crap?

How about meeting for lunch one day when the kids are at school? And do the kids have a dad they can stay with?

Another thing you can do, is to set up a date. Give her a call and tell her that you've arranged for this and that, and that whoever you find is willing to babysit.

What happened to those teenage babysitters you always see on TV...?

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