I've been on a few dates with a girl. Tonight she basically told me that she wants a LTR. I told her that I had just come out of a long relationship and wasn't prepared to get myself into another relationship so soon. I told her that if this was going to be a problem then we should stop seeing each other now because it would be harder later. I'm kicking myself for throwing away a good shag (its a rare occurrence for me) but I felt that it was the right thing to do. I couldn't bring myself to say "i just want a shag"...I don't know how to do it. Anyway, I just needed to vent my feelings a bit. Thanks for reading.