| Well dude you should have posted up here earlier so we could help you prepare more.
Sounds to me like she is into you, but wants to play a bit. I think that she needs to know that what she did when she was drunk was ok. Not so much that you want her to do it again, but let her know that it didn't freak you out. You could probably bring this in with a neg, like if you get an opportunity (don't force it) to tell her she is touchy, you could slide in a "like saturday night (or whenever), that was a side of you I have never seen before, it was fun, pity we were drunk" or something like that. Obviously calibrate first, if it seems like it REALLY isn't the time for it, don't do it, but pass up the opportunity once and don't ever try to go back to it.
I don't think you put up enough info on your past interactions for me to really gauge what kind of girl she is and what kind of reactions you can expect, but I would say from what you have told us that she wants you to prove your worth to her. Don't TRY to do this. See if you can show a bit of preselection in front of her, I think this would be a big kicker in getting her jealousy circuits firing. I would say head to the mall before hand (like the day before) and run some game on a lot of the people who work there so that when you come back they will recognise you and you can use this as a pivot of sorts. Sounds odd I know, but employees are the easiest people to practice game on when you are new because they are already wide open for you, as they are trying to sell stuff. Plus if you really impress them, they remember you almost everytime because not many people run game on them.
I think you have the kino in the bag, you should maintain it, if not ease off just a tiny bit until you are in a private place, or at least somewhere where her anti-slut defense won't trigger, then you can put it back on and see if you can escalate or not. Calibration is key, but if you get to a point where you are thinking "should we be kissing?" then yes, you should go in for the kiss. Just lean in and she'll get the picture. It's not a hard thing to do. She already wants you, that much is clear.
Lipgloss is an IOI as far as I am concerned, it is either she is trying to be pretty for you, or she is putting it on to make you think she is trying to look pretty for someone else, to see if you are up for the challenge. Either way, she is prettying herself up.
If she is really energetic, and has a bit of a sexually active air about her (you can usually tell, pouty lip looks and shaking her thang when she walks in front of you and all that stuff) you might try a little slap on the bum, or I find that if you inadvertently touch a boob and go "Oops! I just copped a feel there!" that sometimes gets them thinking, depending on the girl. But I can't stress enough, calibration.
Another thing I would like to stress is that you should not go out looking to kiss. If you go out with the one-track mind that you want to kiss her, you will end up stumbling and being awkward and doing all the wrong stuff. You are going out looking to shop, and maybe even run some game while you are out there. Hell, she might be a good pivot, just tell her that you want to say hi to some randoms, then approach some girls and game on. Or even use the "That guy is perfect for you" one and take her over to some random guy (as long as there is a few girls there for you to talk to). But again, calibrate.
So, calibrate constantly, but not consciously, and don't make it a goal to kiss her. Also, you'll do fine, you're alpha and she's just another one. Oh, and be truly prepared to lose her, too. That's the only way you'll get her. And on that note, seeya! Have fun!
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