Well, this is an interesting little situation I've found myself in.

Recently had a quick conversation with a girl I'd been interested in. The topic of sex came up, and she was more than willing to discuss it. Turns out, she's already got crush on a guy she's talked to all of two or three times. I've met the guy and he's definitely got game in a quiet, confident older man sort of way, but he's already in a relationship and doesn't seem to want any extra drama. He's also a bit of a bastard, but that's neither here nor there. I probed the topic a little more with her, and found out that she's got quite an interesting quirk with this guy - she can apparently come to orgasm simply by thinking about him intensely enough. I've heard of this before and studied it a bit, but never actually met a woman that experienced it and talked about it. She was apparently embarrassed about admitting that to me, and I decided it was time to gracefully move on to other topics for the time being rather than let things get awkward and being the creepy guy who demands to hear more about her sexual fantasies.

Here's where I stand now: I'd like to do something about this woman. She's smart, funny, good-looking, independently successful and evidently a sexual woman with one Hell of an imagination. Trouble is, if somebody else is already the subject of that degree of sexual interest, anything I do is likely to seem a little weak by comparison. But what is life without challenge, anyway?

Does anybody here have any sort of experience with this phenomenon? Sounds like her body's already made up her mind for her, but a lot of what we discuss here relates to creating and guiding sexual interest. I know this is most likely the realm of NLP or David Shade's work, but I really am fascinated by this situation and would like get as much information as I can to continue. And of course, I wouldn't mind learning to become the object of that kind of affection myself. Any thoughts?