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PostPosted: Sun Sep 07, 2008 10:09 am 
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Hi everyone,

I really need som help with coming up with some general interesting conversation questions. The setting is, I am talking to some HB (often friends of friends) and I try to come up with some interesting questions. Still it always ends up with "where are you from?" "what do you do?" "do you like this place?" and it's sooo fucking boring for both parts.
So, can you help me with some cool questions?? Unfortunately, even though it apparently work for Mystery & co, it's not really my thing to ask a girl "do you believe in magic?" etc.

Bottom line, what I'm looking for is interesting questions for normal conversations.

Appreciate all help :D


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 07, 2008 10:32 am 
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If I go the questions route, I usually stick with a major, extremely DEEP single question about life or love. Fuck having to come up with 10 "interesting" things to say or ask, and stick with one question that you created yourself, that reflects something PROFOUND.

To kindly warp one of Ross Jeffries' questions in his material:

Have you ever thought what you trained yourself to believe True Love is, may turn out to be nothing but society's lie, and that within your heart of hearts, you know that True Love means so much more than you've ever been taught, and ever yet known... (pause while she stares at you) ... what are those feelings like?

Something such as this catches their attention like you wouldn't believe.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 07, 2008 11:03 am 
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Yes, i believe that, but those are the questions I think seam very weird to ask a friend of a friend or someone from my studies or something. Don't you just seam completely mad if you drop that question on someone in a normal setting??


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Makes no difference how you affect her consciously. She may consciously believe you to be "mad"... what difference does that make? Attraction takes place on a more subconscious level, in the behind-the-scenes of the mind.

It's really a brave question to ask a woman. Chances are, nobody has ever asked her a question of that magnitude and depth, so you will definitely leave a HUGE impression that will help you along the rest of the Game.

That question conveys this:

I am curious about YOU [the girl]... your personality... and most of all what lies beneath that...

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The question puts her into a trance, and notice the line right before the "pause"... that's a hypnotic suggestion. You [the girl] have never experienced True Love, and I have an understanding of it... come to me to experience your real answer

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"someone's" into NLP... lol... i liked your ressponse

but look... why not drop another opener... and run a thread from an interesting response you've recieved from someone in the group... other than that... ask what you wanna know specifically, and cold read the rest.


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Granted I haven't given NLP more than just a cursory glance, I agree that with someone who has known you for more than a day, that kind of question would seem out of place. Questions like that are best left to the very early stages, when a persons mental image of you is still pliable, and they are more likely to accept deep philosophical musings as part of you modus operandi, rather than seeing them as out of character and incongruous with the the mental formula they already have of your personality.

The old staples of any mans conversation (where are you from, what do you do, etc.) are still viable in PU, you just have to know where to go with them. For example;

You:Where are you from?
Her: Anaheim, California
You: Really? Whats it like there?
*this is where we decide whether to cut a move, or to continue on this thread*
Her Response A: Its beautiful, I love it. The sunsets are gorgeous and I'm so close to the beach.
Her Response B: I hate it, the smog is awful and the people are assholes
(I'm from around Anaheim, so I happen to know both of those are true, but this will let you know if "Anaheim" is a good conversational place to take her)

For response A, you continue talking with her about Anaheim, California, beautiful sunsets, and beaches. This gives you ample ammunition for conversation.

For response B, meaning she doesn't like Anaheim, you cut the thread and move on to something else maybe making a comment about how you too dislike smog and assholes, especially smoggy assholes. Get her talking about, her and things she likes, occasionally commenting that you like this or that as well, or dislike this that and the other the same as her. This makes her comfortable talking to you, and builds attraction because you both have so much in common (even if you can't swim, Think sunsets are for homos and find assholes funny, she doesn't need to know that).

Basically, if you use one of the old muskets to get conversation going, run with what she gives you, don't just transition the next one, as this seems awkward and pre-programmed. We've all seen it played out in every romantic movies ever written where the guy asks all those questions, runs out of ammo, then throws the gun at here by asking to buy her a drink.


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Thanks allot for the replies guys :D I appreciate it.
It is often also that I meet these girls in clubs with loud music etc, and then it makes it even harder to ask a long question like the NLP one. But I get the point. The idea behind it is very good!


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