Theres these girls I used to visit on a daily basis to hang out. However one of them seems to be a natural push and pull artist. She's like a female version of a pickup artist. She always negging me and shit testing, and sometimes acting interested. Recently I called her and she didnt pick up, but bumped into her a few hours later and she said "You called me didn't you".

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anyway i think i might've pulled too much if she woud not pick up my call even if she heard it ringing. Yet she's always flirting around with me so I don't know what to think.

So now i decided i need to push by not visiting her anymore.

Would that increase attraction or just make her forget about me?

bump

I had the same situation with a girl like that before, she flirted with me all the time, and did push/pull alot. I think girls like that just like to know that there are guys interested in them or maybe even keep you as backup

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Every situation is different but if she already began cat stringing you, you've probably already showed her your cards. She already knows you think about her and her pussy all the time. "Not visiting" her anymore is an AFC move. AFC's beg for vagina and when they can't get it, they whimper away back to their little World. Instead, I'd go for more of a proactive push.

When she asked you, "You called me didn't you?" A more proactive push would have been a reply like, "Yeah . . . what were you doing? Taking a dump?"

If you do call her, make sure it's only to invite her to activities that raise your value and not some mushy coffee date where you're looking to hold hands with her and pour out your emotions to her . . . Don't tell her that you are LJBFing her but all your actions should shout to her, "Look, you're not really my type so let's just be good friends." This is MUCH more of a push then pouting away quietly and playing "Mr. Broken Heart".

Oh alright so how many days should I wait before seeing her again?

Whenever you think up with a fun activity that screams, "I'm Mr. Fun alpha guy." Whenever you've strategized a bit and you've created the right frame for your encounters with this girl. Whenever you think you can meet her and not give her this, "I' a 3rd grader who's got a crush on his teacher" energy. Whenever you think you can interact with her and enjoy the interaction without thinking you have to do this and that in order to get into her pants.

"When" in the chronological sense has nothing to do with it.

She just called me and the convo was something like this:

her: hey so where've you been these past 2 days? (its only been 1)
me: just hanging out
her: with who?
me: karen and sarah mostly (she knows them)
her: ok can i ask you a really weird question?
me: sure
her: it's for a project
me: ok
her: what would you do if i walked up to you and you didnt know me and started screaming: 'why did you break up with me!!!'

I couldn't think of anything so there was a long awkward silence. Then I said "I dunno, i'll be like: You're silly, what are you doing.'" and she said ok and i said i'll be away from school for about 2 days and ill see her wednesday and hung up.

Shit, what were you doing all this time? You didn't prepare anything? Keep a bunch of activities ready to go in your arsenal.

"See you on Wed." Is not the same as, "Hey, there's this new cafe that I've been meaning to go to . . . How's wed. sound to you? You want to check it out?"

"There's this band I've been meaning to see and they play on Wed . . ."
"There's this exhibit at the ____ museum and they say it kicks ass . . ."
"Oh man, _____ just got back from this club and ______ says it's cool as hell . . ."

The point is to elevate her excitement. The point is to get you two together. You could step one foot into the "cafe" and step out and say, "Oh . . . not what I expected at all" . . . and it wouldn't make a difference.

Read your posts . . . do you even to yourself sound like a guy who wants to get together with this girl? Figure this out first . . .