I had an opportunity to kiss close with a HB last week but i got cold feet. She said to one of my friends she would hook up with me so my friend kinda took the initiative and convinced her to go over to me when i was chillen on the couch alone. She went and layed down next to me and i just kinda froze up, the only way that i can explain it is like a dog chasing a car, if he actually catches the car he wont know what to do with it. The sad part is i had been gaming her pretty well the past few days but the night when i really counted my AFC shined through and the amount of alcohol i consumed wasnt helping either.

Whats the best way to salvage this? i still wanna hook up and eventually fuck. Some advice i had gotten from another place was to start hitting on her friends.

do you have her phone number already?
if so i would shoot her a text and be like "the other night was fun. we should def do it again sometime, but minimize the crowd around us "
see how she reacts to something like that. be playful about it.
but dont bring up the failed night. if you return to the shoulda woulda coulda didnt then both of you will over think it and it will never happen. pretend like thats how you wanted it to be. as if you didnt NEED to hookup with her that night. because you know tghere will be a better oppurtunity to come.
good luck my friend.
-GL

i actually dont have her number but it is very likely i will be seeing her this weekend so ill be sure to get it then...

i was hoping that me not hooking up with her when she was practically handing herself over to me might put higher value on me?

any more opinions?