There is this HB8 Ive been texting with the last 3 weeks. In those 3 weeks we met 3 times. Attraction is there, we made out etc.

Now last weekend we were texting eachother, but it went downhill...she threw one shit test after another at me...(guess me why?) I passed most of them, but at one point I got kinda pissed off, and didnt response her anymore on her messages. Was it a fault to not response?

She is in vacation for 2 weeks now. My question is, should I call her, and ask her hows she doing etc? I dont know, but I have a feeling that I LJBF myself...

dont call her---

making out means nothing!!!

go back!!

start from the first phase!!

and immediately start dating with other girls.
she ll be interested in you if she sees other interested in you too.

Thats crap.
-No shit sherlock!

If a woman starts throwing alot of shit tests at you, it means you've started failing them. You fail once, she loses little attraction and throws another soon. You fail twice, she loses more attractiong and throws another shit test fast.

Don't you fucking back all out, you just need to regain your frame and "game" her. Its just a fucking text message.

Thats all I can say from the little detail.

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So what should I do now, dont call her and start gaming her after she gets back or restart gaming her in 1-2 days?

Dude, I can't say a shit unless you show me something more about the situation. Like what kind of messages did you send etc.

I ain't a medium you know.

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Ok we basically flirted the whole time during this 2 weeks. At first we joked arround but the last week, it got pretty intense. She told me that she trust me and that she could immagine to be my girlfriend.

Then after our date (kiss close/made out) we wrote even more (several sms per day) We wrote how much we like eachother and so on...

Last weekend, as we wrote eachother, she told me how shes helping her best male friend (he has some serious issues) and how shes enjoying spending time with him. I knew she tried to make me jelaous so I didnt really bother about it. Then I received a message:

Hey sweetie I really enjoyed the time with you and I hope that youll get better soon...(I guess this message was for her best friend)

1min later I get a second message:

Sry, that message wasnt for you. sry

I got pissed off and didnt wrote back at all
2 days later (on sunday) I wrote her a message to wish her good vacations...never got an answer back.

Its just kinda strange, at first we tell eachother how much we like spending time together and 2 days later it kinda feels like were having a fight...

to be honest, I really like this girl, shes a cool person. But I have a feeling that she has been playing with me...

Of course I could call her and ask her about her strange behaviour the last time but I dont know... such a stupid situation.

help and any thoughts appreciated

Right - take a step back, i can tell that this situation is way too intence!!

Your first problem 'we wrote even more (several sms per day) We wrote how much we like eachother and so on.'. Its never a good idea to text a girl several messages a day, it shows that you aren't 'busy' also probably thinking about her alot. Talking to her and texting her all day will bore her silly, remember keep her on her toes.

"Last weekend, as we wrote eachother, she told me how shes helping her best male friend (he has some serious issues) and how shes enjoying spending time with him."
To me its a classic blow out, sorry mate but if she wanted to see you she would put at the end of the message, hope to see you soon.

Also not to 'point fingers' but: "Hey sweetie I really enjoyed the time with you and I hope that youll get better soon...(I guess this message was for her best friend)"
she sent that to you on purpose to, either, blow you out even more or make you jelous. I would say the first option.

Sorry mate i think this is kind of doomed, just be cool. Remember its her loss and its also a privillage to be your GF... make her want it, tease her, play hard to get.

hope that helped.

thx Alphie your post helped me a lot. The only strange thing is that she always started to write me first, anyway... I guess I'll just freeze her out and regame her in 2 - 3 weeks.

thx 4 help

When you are in a LTR with a girl, the point is to give in once in a while.

For example, I'm in a LTR right now with this really sweet girl, and we call/txt each other at least everyday. We even go to the same school.

Still theres no one bored. Actually the tension is pumping up all the time.


Sometimes all the PUA crap will just slow you down (freeze-outs, playing hard to get and stuff like that), but instead, if you give in a little... It could escalate you to the next step immediatily.
No she wouldn't.
I'd say that because you didn't answer to her message, she won't answer to yours. Girls are really sensitive about guys not answering to their messages, I have experience of it.

You should have just laughed it off with her.

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thx stetson, I guess I overdid it with push pull, negs, cocky funny and all that stuff. Seems like she's doing all the same things to me now

I could call her out and tell her that all those games are unnecessary... that might provoque fight though.