Ok, i know how to demonstrate dhv's with social proof and am working towards them as much as possible however i need ways to demonstrate them in speech. The whole pre selection stuff is fairly obvious, "my ex etcv etc" and the same goes for risk taking and emoting but..

can anyone think of demonstrating the "leader of men" dhv in speech?
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The "Leader of Men" DHV is not so much about saying a particular line or story as about communicating with the other men in the venue.

You don't LITERALLY have to be their "leader", you just have to use charisma. So get good at chatting with guys about random cool stuff. Favorite bands, vacation spots, and your worst weekend warrior disaster, the more hilarious the better. Heck, you might even find some new wingmen in the bar!

The idea of being a "leader of men" is that you are comfortable LEADING their conversation. "Lead the men and the women follow".

I've found that one of the best ways to do this is to use your skills and practical knowledge. If you're in a group of both girls and guys, talk to BOTH and casually drop little bits us rare stuff you know. And if a guy is acting upset or depressed and bringing down the value of the group, quickly make his problem look easy to solve, give yourself credibility ("I used to be shy around strangers too... until I realized that there's a lot more fun people out there than I thought). Don't let one AFC suck down the value of the entire group.


Another way to be a "leader of men" is to chat up everyone in the venue and then casually introduce your target chick to your "new friends". The is called "the WHOLE ROOM DESTROYER" and it is one of Neil Strauss's (Style's) techniques.