I met this girl at a festival recently and we got chatting ect ect. She didnt mention her BF once and i had isolated her, then MY mate came up and said she had a BF! at first i thought he was saying this and pulling me a away just to be a prick but it turned out she actually does have one..damn
i want this girl so what do u think i should do??

shockingly aswell her bf is a "nice guy" not the usual cock but is also lacking confidence!

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Karma is a bitch, and I guess it would suck to have it happen to you but ten times worst. Sorry just my perspective.

the bf brushoff shouldnt really have mattered, if she didnt bother to mention it then maybe she didnt care to let you know, of which you should have continued to game her, your wing was an ass btw

Good point about karma, but i genuinly think she would have more fun with me.. any ideas about how to get to know her without her thinking i want her..

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It sounds to me that if you were chatting and she didn't play the BF card that either you came in under the radar or she's looking for someone else. Normally when iv'e found out about a BF the target has told me so i usually back off. However i tried a new routine at the office water cooler which i could do with some help developing. When she told me she had a BF i responded with a discussion opener

"would your boyfriend let you be friends with another guy?"

She said she could be friends but could not go out on a date, so if you try this and get a similar response you may have to adjust your mindset / intentions by getting to know her as a friend and then taking it from there.

Phantasy

True about the karma point, but when it comes down to it, There's nothing being friends with her, then if her and her boyfriend don't work out u'd still have the connection, Good way to get to know her without her thinking you want some action or a relationship and then if they brake up, your in. Hope I helped

macbeth

I like that sound of that guys. Im backing of but staying in touch as often as is nessisary. I've got to know ltos of her friends though so she has no reason not to know me.
But, supose for a second she does want a new relationship, anyway i can make her consiously reaslise this without being an absolute dick?

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This is going to make me sound like an arrogant prick, but when your own mother calls you one...

This is what destroyers were made for. Compliment her boyfriend on everything she says about him. Make him sound like the best thing ever since XBox, or something like that. Every time she says what she likes about him, like "He calls me to say hello", say "Thats great! It must be awesome to have someone you care about calling to see where you are and what you're doing, and who you're with. You must feel safe and secure."

Reverse psychology is a muthafucka. She will think about that. You have just turned a positive attribute of the BF into a negative one and making it sound like you are complimenting him. She will then find more negative things about him as she thinks about him "checking up".

Hope I helped. If karma exists, I'm screwed!

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hey thats really cool. I can see that working any one got anyideas what to do after this reverse phycology? I read that suggesting that you would do amazing things with her if her boyfriend wernt so "nice" is suposed to get thinking aswell..ideas on tht?

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