Ok guys im new here. I have read bits and pieces of the game and am just really getting started. I need some help with this because it just kind of came up. I sent this girl I have seen around at my school a facebook message and im not sure how to steer/take the conversation. I will continue reading the books but just not sure where to take it from here. Thanks

Me: Hey whats going on. How are you liking school so far?
Her: hey! not much is goin on just studying.school is good...it's fun I think my classes aren't going to be too hard

that s good that she s eager to speak.

you can neg her here at this point.

say ` oh i am glad you re not like the other blondes `

and you gotta root the conversation.neg her couple times and find
a common topic.then offer her to do something about this
common interest.

meet her asap dude
and f close!!!!:)

I'm assuming your in college, which works to your advantage. As stated above it sounds like shes on the eager side which is a plus. I would try and meet asap, just go grab some food at the caf with her and work your magic... And on a side note, the caf is a great place to pick up the ladies

ok guys thanks for the advice. the convo is moving along well but how do i move this from back and forth to in person or the phone. i rarely see this chick on campus ps

ask her to go to a pop concert!!

I agree with the other guys about the caf. Try and find out if you have the same classes, or similar classes. Look to see if you can help her out, or she wants to proofread a paper for you. Build up report, then go for the close.

well i think i blew it... i sent her a message and really didnt leave an opening for her to reply. i waited a few days, asked her what she had planned for the weekend. her reply was this : um no not yet! just hanging out and getting lots of sleep lol you?. i told her not much, no plans yet, prob getting some rest also. that was about four days ago and again no reply. any advice?

ps- i know i know i have to hurry up and get through some of these books

thanks again

When you tell her you don't have plans and are just going to get some rest, what do you expect her to reply with? I mean if that's all you said then there's no reason for her to reply. Don't beat around the bush and ask if she has plans (that gives her the opportunity to reject you), just straight up tell her to come hang with you this weekend.

very true. I am going to ask her how her weekend was and cut to the chase and ask her to do something next weekend

She says i have no plans YET! i think shes saying i have no plans and im waiting for someone to make the plans. i.e. YOU, she could be inviting u to ask her out to something.

By saying she has no plans, if u ask her out her out she doesnt really have an excuse for turning you down if you are quick. I think if she wasnt interested she would have given some bull like oh im busy this weekend to kinda block from ask her out

I think it is also important to get out of this "friendly" chit-chat mode. You dont want to fall into the LJBF category so you need to step up the flirting. Her responses are just straight-forward answers to your questions, so while you are still controlling the frame you need to step it up. It isn't too late to fix it though.

Find something interesting to do this weekend. Then send her another message saying something like, "I got some big plans for friday night, too bad you are going to be a nerd and stay in "

Also if you have her number start texting her rather than facebook. I hate it when a guy has my number and still uses facebook...i gave you my number for a reason. Hope it all works out! Just remember, be a little mysterious, you dont want to show your hand too soon.

Some of you may disagree with me, but I can steadfastly say that there is no need to analyze any kind of Facebook message/wall posting/chatting/etc.

Why? Because girls (particularly remotely attractive ones) receive tons of messages every single day from guys just like you. Whether it's a wall post, private message, or something through chat, you are one out of 10 or more.

How do I know this? I have seen two different girls' accounts, and they were both SPAMMED with desperate guys trying to get with them, or even get their number.

So, in short, don't analyze Facebook jargon. There's no need.

Dude, you gotta message her and have a high energy vibe. IF she says she doesn't think her classes will be hard, say

"Oh you're a smarty pants, i see, ok then, since you're not shy, id better see you at the next (frat, house, etc) party since you dont need to study. Deal?

This will make her want to show you she is outgoing and not shy like you stated. It'll make her not think you are a creep either like all the other 100 guys who are asking her the same question everyday in college, hey how are you what are you taking whats your major etc, never ask that crap. Make it "high energy" not "encyclopedic"

good luck, facebook ROCKS!

""Oh you're a smarty pants, i see, ok then, since you're not shy, id better see you at the next (frat, house, etc) party since you dont need to study. Deal?""
If you said that to her in right tone or manner it can come off very nicely, but the problem is if u send it to her in a message you cant show any emotion or tone in the voice and it might come across as being a bit too cocky.

there are a 100 ways to say hello