Hi... first post... flame it if you want, but it's only coincidence I found out about these type of boards in the last few days, and thought what the hell.

Situation and request:

I guess I'm naturally ok... score is 230ish in the sack. I can easily flirt, approach and talk to most chicks... but absolute stunners, I turn into a blubbering fool around. But I'm also a late bloomer (virginitly lost at 19) and lacked confidence to the extreme growing up... so it still affects obviously.

Anyway... the other day, met a drop-dead bombshell... my "smooth" opening line "you're so fucking hot... come to coffee with me" ... worked... two days later she bought the coffee, talked for about 40 minutes, and left with me asking for her number. She wrote it on a piece of paper, and said "definitely keep in touch". Now... the day after coffee, she was moving house... about 2 hours away.

Now... I turn to blubber with these kind of chicks, like I put them on a pedestal or something... don't know why.

Anyway... question and request for advice... I'm obviously not gonna be driving 2 hours each way for a girlfriend or anything, but I'd like to keep in touch and if possible down the track date/go out or f*k, but I've only really spoken to her once. How should I approach? Any phone chat "lines" or openings or ways to keep the rapport/interest/excitement?

Advice grateful

Thanks

And obviously it's not one-itis, as I'm gonna be with other chicks in the interim... but it's sort of one-itis, because I've put her in the "special" pile.

Hey Cheese,

I had a bad experience like this. I just started kind of seeing a girl and she moved away for a summer job, but still came back every month or so for the weekend. We talked on the phone about once a week and text'd, and guess what, SHE PUT ME IN THE FRIEND CATAGORY!! By the time the summer was over this HB didn't see me as a sexual partner, but as someone to have a conversation with. I determined this was because I didn't appeal to her physical subconscious, only her emotional.

So here is my advice. If you do keep in touch, don't overdo it. Pick up what these guys say on the board for demonstrating high value, negging and complimenting and use them in your conversations. Throw her a text out of the blue the odd time with a cheesy pickup line so that you stay in the back of her mind and still build rapport as a potential mate.

I'm new to this too but that is what I've learned from my own experiences. Use it if you like.

GL!

-K

This was eye-opening:

Demonstrate high value
Neg
Compliment
Don’t overdo contact
Don’t appeal to emotional side
Appeal to physical side How???